"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it all the same Process?

nicksaiz65

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So I've had a good amount of experience smashing the HB 5-6s. I'm ready to move up the ladder. I've got a date with an HB 7 tomorrow.

But is it all the same process? If I know how to get a HB 5, can I use the same tactics on a HB 7+? All I did was have a strong frame, built comfort and sexual attraction, and I isolated and escalated.

I know I should expect more **** tests. But are there any special PUA tactics that I should know?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MrWood

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its all the same,
video game...

Level UP
 

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the amount of fun your able to have with girls your flat out not attracted to will be the amount of fun you will have with 10s

exercise; talk to several 10s and try to pull them. when you fail do the following.

pimp old lady's and overweight females and actually feel genuine connections with them for a week.
no talking to 10s allowed.

after a week talk to 10s again and feel the difference.

judging people you want to engage with based on looks = fundamental game destroyer.

engaging everyone based on genuine fun and abundance = game for days.. <3
 

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It depends if she is a real 7 or a fake 7. A real 7 is entitled and expects nice behavior. A fake 7 is insecure and responds to c0cky funny.

Every chick in the clubs are fake 7's. That's why a$$hole behavior works on them.

But try the same game to 7's in broad day light and she will think you are disrespecting her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marmel75

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So I've had a good amount of experience smashing the HB 5-6s. I'm ready to move up the ladder. I've got a date with an HB 7 tomorrow.

But is it all the same process? If I know how to get a HB 5, can I use the same tactics on a HB 7+? All I did was have a strong frame, built comfort and sexual attraction, and I isolated and escalated.

I know I should expect more **** tests. But are there any special PUA tactics that I should know?
Yes, for the most part. Where it becomes challenging for many is to actually do the same things with the hotter women because you are afraid of losing them whereas you have no fear of losing an HB5 because you just dont care enough.

90% mental.
 

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the amount of fun your able to have with girls your flat out not attracted to will be the amount of fun you will have with 10s

exercise; talk to several 10s and try to pull them. when you fail do the following.

pimp old lady's and overweight females and actually feel genuine connections with them for a week.
no talking to 10s allowed.

after a week talk to 10s again and feel the difference.

judging people you want to engage with based on looks = fundamental game destroyer.

engaging everyone based on genuine fun and abundance = game for days.. <3
 

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I would actually not give the hotter of the 2 girls as much attention. The hb5 can handle the attention because she isnt used to getting as much. The hb9/10 cant handle not getting as much attention from you as all of the other guys (aka orbiters) which in turn will mind fvck her and make her that much more attracted to you.

On the flip side, hot chicks are getting so much needy attention from guys nowadays, they can often seem relieved that you are just treating them as a normal everyday person.....which will also be refreshing and attractive in its own right.

Both show that you have high self respect and self worth and will not put the hot chick on the pedestal.
 
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