“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Making a commitment to appear socially normal.

Struck me how OFFENSIVE/inappropriate/rude it is to only want a girl for a hole in her body. This is what I've been getting used to with just escorts and Seeking Arrangement.

Idk if I'm on the right track here.

Btw, I really don't think looks are my problem. That's something that occurred to me when I went downtown last week.

I should just try talking about myself. I think I'm a pretty interesting guy. Definitely intelligent. If these girls blame me for fvcking hookers then oh well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Remembering a line from The Mystery Method saying how girls screen out guys who have a "dubious intent." (among other reasons).

There's basically 2 sides of the fence. Which are you on? Do you wish people well or harm?
 

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That's it buddy, keep drinking. In 20 min start talking to real women and report back.
 
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A lot of the guys I see with girls are like those hipster/millennial/metropolitan/kinda queer looking type. I don't get it.

They remind me of the guy Harvey Danger who sang that one song.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Oh yea, also...

I'm SCARY. No matter how much I try to hide it, the psycho will come out at some point. Makes it difficult to form a LTR, if not impossible.

I'm quite combative in a domestic situation.
 
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Obvious stuff....

Just from sitting at a REAL PLACE....

OLD is a waste of time. What kind of girl would be on there? For rizzle.
 

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Oh yea, also...

I'm SCARY. No matter how much I try to hide it, the psycho will come out at some point. Makes it difficult to form a LTR, if not impossible.

I'm quite combative in a domestic situation.
Richard your Killin me
 
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I read one of your posts recently about how you went to a bar and started badmouthing the guy who was picking up trash.

I knew from then that I shouldn't listen to anything you say.

This is an example of terrible social skills from a forum of people who tell me mine are terrible.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OLD is a waste of time. What kind of girl would be on there? For rizzle.
There are not many quality women on OLD but they do exist on there. I met my partner on there (but that's bias so let's ignore that). But four of my close friends met fvcking awesome women on Tinder. If you know how to screen and don't mind wasting the time, OLD can yield results.

Remembering a line from The Mystery Method saying how girls screen out guys who have a "dubious intent." (among other reasons).

There's basically 2 sides of the fence. Which are you on? Do you wish people well or harm?
I actually agree with this. I tend to go into approaches with zero intent. I never chat to a woman for any other reason that to have some fun or interesting conversation. If she seems worth pursuing after five or ten minutes then I'll change gears to be a bit more flirty but still keeping it fun.

Maybe you could try just having fun talking to people?
 

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Come on Richard, show the world that SoSuave Forum has contributed to this society!

Check back with us after getting out of bar.
 

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I'm just treading water until I get my Lambo with personalized license plate LAMBO69.
Getting a lambo isn't going to drastically change your life. It will impress men more than women, by the way.

Why not enjoy your life now? Just meet some people! It doesn't even need to be women. The more fun and social you are, the more comfortable you'll be around women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It will impress men more than women
I disagree.

What you people don't realize is that I used to be very socially popular and have a million friends with my phone ringing 100 times/day before I got arrested.

I've been there and done that. Think about it... What kind of "cred" could being in prison for 4 years earn me with other guys if I really cared. I'd rather keep it a secret.
 

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What you people don't realize is that I used to be very socially popular and have a million friends with my phone ringing 100 times/day
So what happened? Are you saying you choose not to be now?
 
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So what happened? Are you saying you choose not to be now?
I went to prison for 4 years.

There's a line between what matters and what doesn't, and "friendships" with other males does not.

Think about standing in front of a judge and hoping he only gives you a few years instead of 25. Think about how serious that is.

Now think about how all of that is just games compared to when I broke my neck when I was younger.

Now think how unimportant your "friends" seem.
 

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going to prison is low quality tho
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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