mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
#1 for not a user is she wouldn't be going in her pockets on $100 dates
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How to spot a user?
- Thread starter upcoming_DJ
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lol, if she's a woman, she's some level of user. It's all about the art of the deal. Push her for a deal that makes sense to you. Commit only when you feel as if it's best for you, not to help her. When you commit though, commit fully. That way, you can feel good about trying to get the deal in your favor and not feel as if you're taking advantage of someone. You're simply making her work for your attention and resources. Do this and you will be happy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
That's the one being cheated on?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Soflobro#2
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men and women use each other. If a woman associates with you, shes only doing it because she's getting something from you.
No doubt.
I'm talking about guys who get nothing in return. I always get mine or the bytch gets dropped.
Soflobro#2
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I mean its better for it to be an uneven trade in your favor then the reverse.
Serenity
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Hmmm, this one has me thinking. She might be putting a lot of effort into getting better, but it's hard to tell from my point of view. There's a couple of things that stick out to me. First is that she don't take pictures of herself at all, it is an indicator of self-esteem issues, the question is whether it's isolated to pictures or is you can see low self-esteem creep through in other areas. It's typical for daddy issues to have low self-esteem. Second is using image quotes to express emotions, this may also indicate low self-esteem. The reason being that they don't have the self-esteem to put their feelings into their own words, so they hide behind something written by someone else to express their feelings.
I dunno.
I dunno.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
upcoming_DJ
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I've thought about this - since she has been honest about her past saying that most of her situations have been **** buddies type of relationships - nothing formal and sometimes for long.
we spent another weekend together this past weekend and every time we hang out it seems like she's bonding a little more. I couldn't bang her because she was on her red so I stayed away. However she asked me to take a picture with her on Saturday night and I didn't. she was also using language that signals she's probably looking at this as something that could lead to something more formal and she's talking about the future already (ie. making plans of what we'll do well down in 2 - 4 weeks).
upcoming_DJ
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well she has been honest enough to tell me that she's suffered with low self esteem. I guess being around me (as a high value male that has other women working for my attention) this is also helping her to get that ego boost. However, because I treat her right I don't do lots of verbal complements (I think I've complemented her around 4 times so far only). she treats me right, is beginning to be more affectionate in public, meeting my friends and family and interacting with them.
Serenity
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Well, since you can't be sure then go with the flow. You could always just pull the fvck out if problems arise. Sounds like you're enjoying each other, don't try to fix something that isn't broken.