Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I don't lol.. I got a few but I was just wondering what happened I actually really like this one... I'm more confused than anything.
Lol sorry I don't believe I have posted it before
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No... you're new, the thread isn't.
Oh ok sorry bro lol are you able to answer my thread tho? As I can't find the answer on hereNo... you're new, the thread isn't.
Some of us have seen it all. Would be nice for a surprise one day.
You care too much. Neediness repels women.
Nothing happened.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why didn't she respond when I said all good? Maybe she didn't have a answer to it.
Does it matter to a guy who nothing much phases him?
She probably wanted to figure out where YOUR headspace was concerning you and she, so she tells you something is bothering her, but doesn't tell you what, hoping you will ask and, therefore, open the conversation, paving the way for her to have the "what are 'we' " conversation.
I said on PM already. No enough money. You are not her best option. theres someone better than you in either look or money thing
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
True good advice but sadly my ego and pride won't let me message her... She can contact me
I wouldn't mind it lol... And yeah old photo had a few methamphetamine problems all good now though
