Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't lol.. I got a few but I was just wondering what happened I actually really like this one... I'm more confused than anything.
Lol sorry I don't believe I have posted it before
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No... you're new, the thread isn't.
Oh ok sorry bro lol are you able to answer my thread tho? As I can't find the answer on hereNo... you're new, the thread isn't.
Some of us have seen it all. Would be nice for a surprise one day.
You care too much. Neediness repels women.
Nothing happened.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why didn't she respond when I said all good? Maybe she didn't have a answer to it.
Does it matter to a guy who nothing much phases him?
She probably wanted to figure out where YOUR headspace was concerning you and she, so she tells you something is bothering her, but doesn't tell you what, hoping you will ask and, therefore, open the conversation, paving the way for her to have the "what are 'we' " conversation.
I said on PM already. No enough money. You are not her best option. theres someone better than you in either look or money thing
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
True good advice but sadly my ego and pride won't let me message her... She can contact me
I wouldn't mind it lol... And yeah old photo had a few methamphetamine problems all good now though
