“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Where are you guys seeing a "6" at in those pics? The dude is a solid 3 or 4. If he takes the steps I listed above, THEN he moves to a 6. From there, he can continue to build upon that successful foundation to get to a PEAK of a 7 to 7.5, but being at a 6 to 7 would be sufficient enough for him to pull consistent 6.5 to 7.5 women if he plays the numbers game.
You sound gay, judging men too closely. He's not less than average, but does need work.

We need to build each other up, not knock down. He will look a completely different person when he loses 20 pounds and puts a bit of meat on.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You sound gay, judging men too closely. He's not less than average, but does need work.

We need to build each other up, not knock down. He will look a completely different person when he loses 20 pounds and puts a bit of meat on.
Different girls will have different opinions of you.

I've been called a 4 and an 8 within the past two days.
 

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Different girls will have different opinions of you.

I've been called a 4 and an 8 within the past two days.
You post 50 threads a day. Your opinion is basically irrelevant.
 

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You sound gay, judging men too closely. He's not less than average, but does need work.

We need to build each other up, not knock down. He will look a completely different person when he loses 20 pounds and puts a bit of meat on.
Lol, aren't we both men judging another man Sir? How then would my judgment be more gayer than your judgment lol? Another poster sent responses from women as well, saying the same thing that he's a 3.

OP should put his pic on Photofeeler right now and post the results. Get at least 50 to 100 votes. My estimate is that his final attractive measurement might come in the 40% range, which is a 3 to 4. NO way this guy is a 6 right now.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'm not the redundant c+nt trolling people on the internet. People here are trying to get a life. I suggest you join the party sausage.
 

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I've always pondered if i was good looking or not, i really have no idea.

https://imgur.com/a/rRxZn

Don't worry guys I'm not sensitive, i won't cry for longer than 15-30 minutes tops if your honest opinion is low :p
I always thought you were a white guy (not that it matters). You dress like a white guy. Not a short dude. Correct posture. Wear fitted clothes. Hit a gym. get DEEZED! Confidence. What else more do you need?

* Fist BUMP * Mate! cheers Bruv!
 

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- You can be the class clown, but lose the goofiness. You can be funny and all of that shyt, but being a goofball isn't cool and as a grown a.ss man, you can't be running around here like that.
What i will say is that i knew a guy who was way goofier than me, we were overall pretty similar, but he was lighter skinner, twice as goofy if not more, louder and had a better style.

I'm probably gonna copy his clothing style (i already basically copy his haircut at his recommendation) and see how that works out for me. But the main point of this story is that I'm not necessarily too goofy, or even as goofy as i appear.

Another point, until you fix these issues, STOP giving advice on here Bro. This is the problem with this website. Guys who clearly do not have their LOOKS together (like my boy @Urbanyst) preaches, have no business giving other grown a.ss men advice. That's another major flaw of this website, it's that anonymous dudes who have not fixed their shyt are up here "preaching".
I don't really preach, i just give my opinions on things. Though i will say that it doesn't make sense to say "you're too ugly to have good advice" because that implies that good looking people give better advice.

Why would someone who plays the game on an easier difficulty be more skilled at it than someone who plays the game on hard? If anything we should find the ugliest guy here who can still pull hot girls and listen to his sage wisdom lmao.
 
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OP should put his pic on Photofeeler right now and post the results. Get at least 50 to 100 votes. My estimate is that his final attractive measurement might come in the 40% range, which is a 3 to
If that happens I'm going to buy a mask and never take it off
 

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We need to build each other up, not knock down. He will look a completely different person when he loses 20 pounds and puts a bit of meat on.
20 pounds? I hope that doesn't turn me into a stick figure.

As for the subject of harshness, i suppose it's better to hear it here than to have a girl laugh in my face because I'm too ugly to be in her presence or something.

I won't discourage being harsh if it's an honest opinion, sugar coating it wouldn't get me laid. (although i am kind of easily discouraged and defeatist so if you were all harsh I'd have given up on women and finally subscribed to pornhub premium)
 

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In other news I'd like to point out that i don't dress in plaid dress shirts normally, that was at an internship, while i sometimes wear them i don't tuck them in or wear ties normally.

I wear a lot of sweaters, polo shirts, graphic t shirts, jackets (i used to wear hoodies often and i wear used to wear a cardigan everywhere til i lost it), my current main winter jacket is pretty stylish I'd say.

I'll work on my style at the end of march or so, i won't have the cash to buy a lot of new clothes til then
 

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You're not ugly but I don't know why you make your face super troll when you pose, you need to lose some weight and get your jawline to pop out so you can get those bitches.
 

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Interestingly today the last selfie i took was while i was annoyed about something and whistling, lots of people were like "what's up with your face?" Apparently i looked really mad or something (and since i was whistling i was doing something weird with my lips)
 

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Interestingly today the last selfie i took was while i was annoyed about something and whistling, lots of people were like "what's up with your face?" Apparently i looked really mad or something (and since i was whistling i was doing something weird with my lips)
Post one of the three pictures at the top of your link on Photo Feeler: https://www.photofeeler.com/

Pay for at least 50 to 100 votes and post the results on here.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You look uglier than the quality of women you are with would indicate.
 

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DevilKing, don’t listen to any of this nonsense. You’re not ugly at all. You’re an average looker with potential to be an 8.

Follow the instructions I gave you earlier.

As to photofeeler: It doesn’t gauge how attractive you are, rather it gauges the pics themselves. I have had pics range from 40-99%. So don’t take it personally. If you score low. Just take stronger pics.
 

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@devilkingx2 IMO a lot of these posts are just b*tchy BS from people who are trying to knock you down to boost their ego, I'd ignore the most negative posts. The 1-10 scale is largely b*llocks anyway, attraction is subjective.

HOWEVER there is always room for improvement. Here are my most honest pointers, without being an a**hole trying to knock you down:

1. As I said in my first post, the expression in that smile pic is tryhard. It actually damages your attractiveness. I'd say in that pic (not in general, just in that pic) your attraction level would be 6/10 - this is because it's not a great angle anyway, and it's a selfie.

Then you do that fake cheesy smile and it drops to 3/10 because it's silly. Just smile normally and don't put it on, get a shot from further back taken by someone else.

Also I don't know if it's the angle but your cheeks look a little chubby in the first pic. They don't in the shots of you which are further back - so I think it must just be bad angle. In any case, if that is actually "a thing", some cycling or running will slim your face and make it look more masculine. But as I said, probably a bad angle photo.

2. That pic with you and the girl is a good one. I couldn't find it again to quote it here. The hair looks good, the clothes are sharp and I like 'em. You look like you have quite broad shoulders. Focus on these positive attributes and improve them further - broaden your frame further with weights and exercise and you will accentuate your looks.

3. The formal dress looks the best. Unless you're going somewhere really informal I'd stick to good looking waistcoats and polo shirts. Takes some confidence to pull off the waistcoat look but it can be a really nice style. Once you've got gym muscles, you can start looking very good in T-shirts.

My two cents anyway, take it or leave it.
 

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Also, to showcase the kind of impact things like physique, hair etc. has on your clothes and looks, here are two side-by side pics of me. 3 years apart.

On the right I'm a fat dude wearing a blue shirt with a stupid mop of hair, in the other I'm a fit dude wearing a blue shirt with more cropped hair (though still too long really, lol). Massive difference to the jawline and face as well.

Anyone can change their looks by a pretty huge amount, just takes effort.

 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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