"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Being Super Direct vs Dates?

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So as I'm working to become a PUA, I've noticed that some people are extremely direct with girls. As in they'll be like "come over and let's fvck." And IT WORKS. Whenever I tried this in the past, I got blown out. But how do you know when to be direct vs when to take them on dates? I guess it just depends on the type of person and trusting your gut. Is it cool to still go on dates with these crazy party girls? Does it just depend on how interested they are in you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You have to be able to read the chick that you're talking to and also it's has all to do with your frame and confidence, which will either pull off your delivery or make you look like a jerk.

Without building some rapport it will never work.
 
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You also have to be pretty sure the chick is really into you...

You can get results quicker this way but you can also have a lot of lost opportunities if you would bave been more chilled in your approach.

This is something to experiment with once you've got like 3 or 4 chicks in rotation you are banging not right out of the gate.

Patience young grasshopper, patience.
 
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marmel75 said:
You also have to be pretty sure the chick is really into you...

You can get results quicker this way but you can also have a lot of lost opportunities if you would bave been more chilled in your approach.

This is something to experiment with once you've got like 3 or 4 chicks in rotation you are banging not right out of the gate.

Patience young grasshopper, patience.
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You said that pick up is easy for guys who can show that they stick out above other guys.

In what ways do girls see you as better than most guys?
 
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The direct forward approach is always my default. When I'm talking to a woman and if I like her, after a certain point I'll just pull out my phone and say "I want to see you again what's your number?" Then I say thanks and get the hell out of there. Don't linger. This works 99% of the time. I also don't play coy or BS when on a date. Towards the end, if I like her, I'll be very direct using good eye contact and say, "I like you. I want to see you again. Let's do xyz. I'll call you." Success rate is 90+%. Occasionally I'll get a maybe or something else to which I'm usually then out and move on. But 9/10 times it's a solid yes. They also reciprocate by saying, Yes, I really like you too. Key is to do it in a very confident and authoritative manner.

Confidence and directness ALWAYS wins.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nicksaiz65 said:
So as I'm working to become a PUA, I've noticed that some people are extremely direct with girls. As in they'll be like "come over and let's fvck." And IT WORKS. Whenever I tried this in the past, I got blown out. But how do you know when to be direct vs when to take them on dates? I guess it just depends on the type of person and trusting your gut. Is it cool to still go on dates with these crazy party girls? Does it just depend on how interested they are in you?
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If a woman is already into you, being told, and instructed as to what she should do will already make her wetter. Note, she is already wet. Prefer indirect for cold approach and then, just being ambiguous thereafter.

You are only hearing about the apocalypse opener when it works. Don't piss around and waste your time on PUA. The instructors are out getting cucked and selling you nonsense. If it inspires you to get out, by all means. If you find value in a program, by all means, go rip it off reddit. There was a guy posting nudes from escorts and call girls on a pua forum who was later revealed to be fraudin and charged for being rapey and kidnapping.

I a girl wants to ****, what relevance does what you say matter? Spam lots of girls, spin plates, go balls deep, and repeat. Just don't be at the mercy of your biology chasing pua status and raw dog *****s who will give you hiv and then drag you through custody battles for their kids or rape.
 
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Lmao so y'all would say PUA is worthless? I think that the "routines" are BS, yeah. But I think some of the stuff like how to dress, inner game, and confidence is really good. Although that's nothing that isn't already on the DJ Site
 
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nicksaiz65 said:
So as I'm working to become a PUA, I've noticed that some people are extremely direct with girls. As in they'll be like "come over and let's fvck." And IT WORKS. Whenever I tried this in the past, I got blown out. But how do you know when to be direct vs when to take them on dates? I guess it just depends on the type of person and trusting your gut. Is it cool to still go on dates with these crazy party girls? Does it just depend on how interested they are in you?
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say this to unknown girl on badoo and you will read "f off loser"
say this to girl who is attracted to you and comfortable with you and she will consider it
 
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Saw this cool woman at a party, we had a nice chat, but b'cos I have been with other girl I didn't took it forward with her then. Gave her a hug and said goodbye . Later on I sent her friend request on FB , which she accepted, went full force and send her this :

Me : Hey (name), I liked your vibe, and I think you're smokin' hot woman. let's have a drink ,,,, when are you free?
Her: No way Cheeky! , I'm happily married,,,

Haaa , Oh well, sometime you win,,, sometime you win less,,,(never lose,,,)

(She didn't deleted me from FB, So I would like to assume she liked my direct approach, despite rejecting me,,,)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Usually when this works the guy is in some way out of the girl's league. This won't work with girls who are used to hot and/or interesting guys.
 
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nicksaiz65 said:
So as I'm working to become a PUA, I've noticed that some people are extremely direct with girls. As in they'll be like "come over and let's fvck." And IT WORKS. Whenever I tried this in the past, I got blown out. But how do you know when to be direct vs when to take them on dates? I guess it just depends on the type of person and trusting your gut. Is it cool to still go on dates with these crazy party girls? Does it just depend on how interested they are in you?
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Situations it will work:

1. She already knows and likes you

2. She's already pretty much swooning over your LMS before you even approached/started talking to her

3. She's drunk and/or high

4. She's very easy to bed (and she already likes either you or your LMS at least a little bit)

I definitely did know a girl that was DTF mid day, within 15 minutes of meeting my friend, (she asked him to show her where the bathroom was then invited him inside with her). He didn't like her though (HB6-6.5 asian girl) and we were at work so he couldn't afford to spend 20 minutes fvcking her.
 
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Glassguy said:
You have to be able to read the chick that you're talking to and also it's has all to do with your frame and confidence, which will either pull off your delivery or make you look like a jerk.

Without building some rapport it will never work.
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This works.
 
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