"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

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So i asked this chick "are you dating now"

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DJnoob

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She said "NO", so i told her "take it as a compliment"etc and went about my business. Then she wanted talk more by asking me where i'm going more but i just kept walking and took it as rejection.

I asked a chick out before long ago and she said "she is dating" which led to sex..

does that mean
1. Not interested in you?
2. She isn't dating..but can be down to fvck still?

See..this whole "dating" is confusing me lol.. Maybe i asked the wrong question..
dating = just ****ing?
dating = just taking them out to dinner dates etc that will lead to sex

Reason why i ask is because i don't have enough past data in my head to compare results. Opinions? tnx
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wait, she told you she's dating and then f*cked you? As in, she was dating and so was available, or she was dating a guy and somehow she got with you instead?

I'd say something like "You got a man in your life at the moment?"

Sets you up as "the man" in her eyes subconsciously because you're not talking "boys" like a kid, and at the same time it's vague enough that she'll hopefully just say if she's single.

Though frankly I don't usually bother asking. If she's not actively showing me interest, I'm not going to bust my hump asking her 60 questions.
 
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I dont even get why you'd ask this question. Who cares what the answer is go for what you want.
 
devilkingx2

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DJnoob said:
I asked a chick out before long ago and she said "she is dating" which led to sex..
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We have no idea if that girl meant she has a boyfriend but doesn't respect commitment or if she had nothing committed going on just a bunch of FWBs
 
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