"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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People get Married so Early

nicksaiz65

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I see my peers getting married around ages 18-21. To me, that’s absolutely crazy. Way too early. I need more time to get my shyt together than that. But what do y’all think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sosousage

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read the rational male and get married after 30s (or not at all). i think the situation with child support in usa is really screwed
 

Vantagepoint34

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The term High School sweetheart comes to mind. If a girl doesn't have that she'll make it up. There's a good group of work oriented girls out there wanting to marry in their thirties too. Some real Millenial stuff lolz...
 

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A lot of people do get married young. Some of the best marriages I know, they got married young, surprisingly enough.
But the average age of first marriage in the west has been climbing rapidly. In the USA, it's 27 for women and 29 for men. In most of Europe, it's actually in the 30s.
 

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A lot of people do get married young. Some of the best marriages I know, they got married young, surprisingly enough.
But the average age of first marriage in the west has been climbing rapidly. In the USA, it's 27 for women and 29 for men. In most of Europe, it's actually in the 30s.
I think there are some benefits to marrying early, if both people have good heads on their shoulders.

1. Can focus on careers and building assets (together) rather than hitting the club or trolling Tinhder online lol.

2. For having kids, you have more energy to raise them and lower risk of birth defects.

3. You can potentially retire earlier, rather than be a 60 year old with a kid still in college.

But it’s definitely not for everybody.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Reyaj

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I think there are some benefits to marrying early, if both people have good heads on their shoulders.

1. Can focus on careers and building assets (together) rather than hitting the club or trolling Tinhder online lol.

2. For having kids, you have more energy to raise them and lower risk of birth defects.

3. You can potentially retire earlier, rather than be a 60 year old with a kid still in college.

But it’s definitely not for everybody.
All true.. wasn't in the cards for you and me though lol
 

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I think 60 to 80% of millionaires married in their youth
 
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