"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm literally elite in every category now and it doesn't matter one lick.
That’s when I stopped reading lol. Im gonna finish the rest later.

You remind me of the guy from greek mythology (I think) that fell in love with his own reflection.

I know we preach self improvement and being alpha but maybe just maybe you are going way overboard with this. Or you are atroll....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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That’s when I stopped reading lol. Im gonna finish the rest later.

You remind me of the guy from greek mythology (I think) that fell in love with his own reflection.

I know we preach self improvement and being alpha but maybe just maybe you are going way overboard with this. Or you are atroll....
go down the list

*my face - about 8/10
*body- lean and athletic but good amount of muscle mass (195 lbs)
*fashion sense and grooming- impeccable
*income level - close to 200k at age 29 in a cheap area. probably top 0.0001% for my demographics in country
*house, car, lifestyle, social circle. Everything is completely elite

but it doesn't matter. I don't get any signs of interest from decent quality women

when I approach someone I like at a bar, they walk away after a couple minutes
 
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*my face - about 8/10
*body- lean and athletic but good amount of muscle mass (195 lbs)
*fashion sense and grooming- impeccable
*income level - close to 200k at age 29 in a cheap area. probably top 0.0001% for my demographics in country
*house, car, lifestyle, social circle. Everything is completely elite

but it doesn't matter. I don't get any signs of interest from decent quality women

when I approach someone I like at a bar, they walk away after a couple minutes
Is it true that you're a virgin? I think I remember someone saying that.
 

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Is it true that you're a virgin? I think I remember someone saying that.
no ive had sex with 10 to 14 women

all hideously monstrously below my league. Then again women in my league are likely dating male models
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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But I thought you WERE a male model.

Do you get matches on Tinder?
im about 8/10 in real life standards, body and fashion is a 10/10. My face is only about 6.5 to 7 in pics

I'm nowhere near male model status. True male models are like 1 in 10,000... I'm probably better looking than say 98 our of a 100

I've not tried tinder but I know I wouldn't get anywhere with it. I tried online dating 8 years ago and the results were absolutely horrific
 
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im about 8/10 in real life standards, body and fashion is a 10/10. My face is only about 6.5 to 7 in pics

I'm nowhere near male model status. True male models are like 1 in 10,000... I'm probably better looking than say 98 our of a 100

I've not tried tinder but I know I wouldn't get anywhere with it. I tried online dating 8 years ago and the results were absolutely horrific
Why not try again and see what happens?

Then tell us about it.
 

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No matter how much I improve myself,
Most self improvement is mental masturbation.

Want to really improve yourself?

Start a conversation with one woman that you don't, and take it as far as you can.

If you do that every day, you'll REALLY be improving yourself, not just pretending.

Every day, for the next several months.
 

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*my face - about 8/10
*body- lean and athletic but good amount of muscle mass (195 lbs)
*fashion sense and grooming- impeccable
*income level - close to 200k at age 29 in a cheap area. probably top 0.0001% for my demographics in country
*house, car, lifestyle, social circle. Everything is completely elite

but it doesn't matter. I don't get any signs of interest from decent quality women

when I approach someone I like at a bar, they walk away after a couple minutes
I'd work on your social skills...sound incredibly awkward or clueless as how to make a woman wet.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Most self improvement is mental masturbation.

Want to really improve yourself?

Start a conversation with one woman that you don't, and take it as far as you can.

If you do that every day, you'll REALLY be improving yourself, not just pretending.

Every day, for the next several months.
I do that sometimes approaching women at bars

the results are fkcing horrible
 

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Wow. I can’t stop feeling like I’m destined for greatness. Must be something in the air, huh.
 

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I'd work on your social skills...sound incredibly awkward or clueless as how to make a woman wet.
Your guys' advice for improving social skills is to talk to people everywhere you go. That's what I do at my job - I talk to random people everyday and make 99% of them love me (I sell cars). I'm one of the best salesmen for my industry in the entire country. I can make people like me instantly at work.

Talking to women is way way way way way more difficult and complicated than common sense social skills
 

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Why not try again and see what happens?

Then tell us about it.
I already know what happens

massive monster rejection. Not a single reply or date from anybody I pursue, unless I go after 50 year olds or obese women
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your guys' advice for improving social skills is to talk to people everywhere you go. That's what I do at my job - I talk to random people everyday and make 99% of them love me (I sell cars). I'm one of the best salesmen for my industry in the entire country. I can make people like me instantly at work.

Talking to women is way way way way way more difficult and complicated than common sense social skills
Its really not, you just have convinced yourself it is.
 

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Its really not, you just have convinced yourself it is.
then why is it that the only women who stay interested in me are 50 year olds and gross fatties?? I've always been good at talking to people

meanwhile, the female equivalent of me is dating movie stars
 

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Your guys' advice for improving social skills is to talk to people everywhere you go. That's what I do at my job - I talk to random people everyday and make 99% of them love me (I sell cars). I'm one of the best salesmen for my industry in the entire country. I can make people like me instantly at work.

Talking to women is way way way way way more difficult and complicated than common sense social skills
Why haven't you moved to SF yet? I told you that you would have tons of success with Asian girls.

All you would have to do is go into a bar and look at an Asian girl and they would want to bang you. They dont care if your social skills suck as long as youre white. And since you're better looking than Channing Tatum, that would make it even easier.

Are you gonna whine on SoSuave forever, or are you gonna get up off your butt and move to California?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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