pulled 9/10 strippers number

[captain55]

- pulled her number successfully. texted her that night gamed her...she wanted me to come over her house but she lived an hour away and I was too tired to come at 4 am.
- Wanted to hang out the next day I blew her off for a basketball game.
- Asked her out, she said she works every night but we can do breakfast some time.
- Hits me up out of the blue five days ago with a "hey". I say "when am I seeing you" She says when her bills are paid this month after the holidays she will have more free time.

The problem is this chicks schedule is ridiculous. She works 7 nights a week....Should I even bother texting her in between to keep her interest? Or just hit her up after the holidays? She's only been dancing a few months and is young, so the dancing hasn't ruined her yet

 

[Masculinity]

Make sure you don't end up being an ATM with a penis.

 

[MatureDJ]

I just have to believe that a stripper's motivation to give out her contact info to a client is simply to be able to market to him either her stripping at the club or just plain canonical prostitution. There is also the possibility of her wanting to finagle "soft" prostitution (i.e., she'll bang him, but then ask for help to pay the rent or to fix a bad tooth, etc.), something that non-strippers of low class do, as black forum members like Tenacity have discussed about being the target of such women. Of course, one step above soft prostitution is marriage (whether legal or more likely, "common-law") so as to have a steady flow of financial resources.

As cynical as I make this out, I do think that most of the time - situations like that old oil tycoon coot marrying the stripper Anna Nicole Smith excepted - there is an element of actual "arms-length" attraction when sex workers decide to give out their number; yes, even sex workers obey Briffault's Law.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

What was the conversation like when you met her at the strip club?

Got a pic to back up your 9/10 claim?

I would have to assume she has her fair share of mental issues since she strips. Don't listen to the guys who say you're "just a client." Strippers are real people. And if she treats people like "just some client" then it speaks volumes about her personality and maturity.

 

[exhausted]

Don't go raw and catch something life altering.

 

[sazc]

- Hits me up out of the blue five days ago with a "hey". I say "when am I seeing you" She says when her bills are paid this month after the holidays she will have more free time

This means "if you pay my bills we can hang out asap"

 

[marmel75]

Hopefully you've learned something from the last chick you dated so you dont pull a repeat of that disaster.

 

[The Duke]

$trippers move pretty fast. They are more direct and straight forward than regular civilian girls.

I'd make a surprise visit to her club when its not busy and see if you can reignite some interests. Sometimes I text them when I show up, other times I let them see me hanging out with new girls. Act just like you did when you first met. Don't make it about money.

If she likes you and sees you with other $trippers, she might get a little territorial but it always works to your advantage.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

$trippers move pretty fast. They are more direct and straight forward than regular civilian girls.

I'd make a surprise visit to her club when its not busy and see if you can reignite some interests. Sometimes I text them when I show up, other times I let them see me hanging out with new girls. Act just like you did when you first met. Don't make it about money.

If she likes you and sees you with other $trippers, she might get a little territorial but it always works to your advantage.

Either way, it's most likely an uphill battle to get a good relationship out of this.

And that's not his fault, it's hers.

 

[lizardking82]

Either way, it's most likely an uphill battle to get a good relationship out of this.

And that's not his fault, it's hers.

A relationship with a stripper? LOL

I mean, I don't know how you guys can miss out on what @sazc pointed out. "Pay my bills and you access this *****" is what she means

 

[sosousage]

Either way, it's most likely an uphill battle to get a good relationship out of this.

And that's not his fault, it's hers.

sure strippers and prostitutes might have broken mentality/attittude/values - they see men and world different than other girls do, they probably dont catch feelings this easy and will swing branch easily (or multiple branches), but, you never know

 

[djthiago1]

sure strippers and prostitutes might have broken mentality/attittude/values - they see men and world different than other girls do, they probably dont catch feelings this easy and will swing branch easily (or multiple branches), but, you never know

The big question is: "Is it worth wasting the time and money?"

 

[RichardTheFrog]

And just so you know, the going rate of a hooker is roughly $150/30 minutes, $180-$200/hour.

Although the other night, I got one HOT ONE for $100/30 minutes.

So there should be a good reason if she's asking for more than that haha.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

It's probably a burner phone, a lot of club management allow this now and encourage it. The funny part is some will lie and be like I'm not suppose to do this but here is my number. It's all BS.

It's just a marketing tool to try to get you into the club. @MatureDJ explained it quite well.

No need to feel special you and a 100 other guys have her number. Just when you forget about her she'll send out a text saying hey come see me I miss you. Lmfao....suuuure.

It's pretty crazy how many young broads jump into stripping. I use to hear the same ole story back in the 00's. It would always be this hot sweet country chick moving to the big city trying get away from her controlling/ridiculous parents!

As a side note I highly doubt a 9/10 is working 7 days a week. No füking way. She's working 3/4 tops. If it's a busy club she's pulling 1k to 2k a night even after paying her dues.

 

[jaymbrs]

I think your window of opportunity to smash this broad with no strings attached has passed when you were too tired to go to her house and when you blew her off. Good job. Now she's hinting that she expects something from you if you want to get with her at some point.

 

[The Duke]

And how many of you have dated $trippers before that you met in a club? that's what I thought.

 

[Andrewdiceclay]

I just had something like this happen recently and posted about it. Only the stripper gave her real number and name to one of my close female friends. They've been texting at my encouragement so we can go back and get free entry and drinks. I didn't think the stripper was hustling but I do now. I also think the stripper is onto my friends hustle because the stripper invited her out a couple times to the club and a party and my friend bailed with stupid excuses.

I think it's all a way to make you feel special and get you back into the club. Any good/hot stripper is not working 7 days a week. They only work weekends. Her claiming she has no money and telling you about it is a well known ploy for you to give her money. Be careful cause like what people said here- they can be low key escorts. Move on. It's a health hazard anyway but try and be friends for free entry and hook ups.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

And how many of you have dated $trippers before that you met in a club? that's what I thought.

Who would want to?

 

[sosousage]

Who would want to?

probably many people here dated strippers but they didnt know about it lol