Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Even the title of this thread speaks volumes. Yuck. 
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
maria
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I haven't released. Will have 13 years clean in February.
I don't make decisions based off what other people think I should do. The threesome wasn't even my idea it just happened. Funny I would not even entertain the thought with Maria.
She's just perfect. Shy. She's from a small town in Mississippi and doesn't realize how hot she is lol. Plays final fantasy likes to read about philosophy
And your right Millie loves me so much that if I told her I wanted to keep her around as a side piece she'd happily accept it. Maria feels bad about being a home wrecker but she had nothing to do with this this is just what I want
I don't make decisions based off what other people think I should do. The threesome wasn't even my idea it just happened. Funny I would not even entertain the thought with Maria.
She's just perfect. Shy. She's from a small town in Mississippi and doesn't realize how hot she is lol. Plays final fantasy likes to read about philosophy
And your right Millie loves me so much that if I told her I wanted to keep her around as a side piece she'd happily accept it. Maria feels bad about being a home wrecker but she had nothing to do with this this is just what I want
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Teddy_Beer
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...this cant be real...
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
And I mean I've been with Millie for almost 12 years now. It's just time to do something different
via con dios my friend, go with God
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
My next post, laughing my *ss off, waiting for him to post again distraught over how Maria left him for her college sweetheart, his wife is taking him to the cleaners and his kids are done with him.
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
OP, no offense, but your post gets my vote for #1 Beta Post of the Year. And there have been some bad ones. You are breaking EVERY DJ rule since inception.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
honestly que sera, seraYou'll be one of those rare men that initiates divorce. I don't think some can wrap their head around that
If this goes tits up, will you still be happy with that decision to divorce?
Or is this all just about this one woman?
I think at the end of the day, and I've always been like this,is being a man is owning up to your feelings and not making any reservations about how you feel, going for it and letting the chips fall where they may. i've never lived my life up to now saying "what if" i'm not gonig to start now. if it doesn't work ill figure it out from there.
I'm in love. You know a nigga in love when she got me proof reading my ****
you shut your ***** mouth.
I mean, probably the most low maintenance girl I've ever met in my life. We walk everywhere. She likes the exercise. I've lost 4 pounds since i've met her i'm down to 163. girl has a stomach you can bounce quarters off of. no fat anywhere. She cooks. she ain't clingy / does her own thing. I love that. you ain't go catch my wife walking anywhere lol. She's a bit of a late bloomer she's lost a **** load of weight and she ain't used to someone being this into her as I am and I'm not used to someone being this independent where they don't want or need my help. i mean she's hot, very very ****ing hot lol, but i think what attracts me to her more than anything is that i know she likes ME. She thinks I'm extremely funny, she just likes being around me. and i am lol. The one thing that took me forever to get past with my wife is that kneeing in teh back of my head, if i couldn't afford to; have her sit at home all day she wouldn't be my wife. Maria and I could be two hobos and we'd be just as into each other.
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Now you mention it, there are parts of this which seem like Backbreaker and others that seem way off!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Oh, the humanity!.....
seriously, no woman is into you just for you. two hobos and she'd be just as into you? now I know you are delirious. if you were a hobo, she wouldn't have given you the time of day. if you were both hobos, she'd be looking to trade up out of the hobo life. c'mon man, think, think with the big head and not the little one.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
lol ya'll dudes just jealous.
i mean, if you haven't gathered by now, there is nothing you're going to say that is going to change my mind lol i'm not asking for advice. i know what i want and i'm going for it logic be damned. i'll just keep you guys posted on how it works out
i mean, if you haven't gathered by now, there is nothing you're going to say that is going to change my mind lol i'm not asking for advice. i know what i want and i'm going for it logic be damned. i'll just keep you guys posted on how it works out
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This part of the thread I can't argue with
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
TRUST me... no one here is jealous. We are in fact appalled on several different levels. And everyone knows that no one is going to convince you of anything.
"Logic be damned" = impending train wreck. I don't relish that; In fact, I (and I think most of us) are hoping for the best for you, but dude, you have allowed yourself to become blinded by a crush.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
U know
If I was going to cheat
I kinda wish I can go back in time and hit up foot girl from a few months back. I still think about her feet lol
If I was going to cheat
I kinda wish I can go back in time and hit up foot girl from a few months back. I still think about her feet lol
Killakittie
Senior Don Juan
Why are you so excited about this woman to go as far as posting it on a public forum where it will remain forever, and where your wife could easily use it to screw you in court?
Your 32 but your writing comes across as that of a teen boy who's discovered that he enjoys reading fantasy porn for the first time.
I think your a troll but If not your incredibly naive/ignorant at best, and immature/stupid at worst.
Your 32 but your writing comes across as that of a teen boy who's discovered that he enjoys reading fantasy porn for the first time.
I think your a troll but If not your incredibly naive/ignorant at best, and immature/stupid at worst.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
i'm 34. i told my wife. i mean i hate to come out and just break it to you but i'm kinda rich lol. i don't brag about it like i used to but i'm not making any decisions based on courts. my wife and kids will be taken care of. i'm going to do me.
Biggest decision I got to make is the house. I have the deed to my house. I specifically moved in my house when I was single so that it could not be taken away from me in an event like this. But that was always for security blanket reasons and that was over a decade ago now I'm like meh. I might just give it to her. I can buy another one if I wanted to. Really more than anything I don't want my kids uprooted.
It's been odd. I mean this **** is kinda inconvenient lol. Millie has always liked a good drink and has always drank way more than I have and now she's kinda turned into a depressed alcoholic. I feel bad but she needs to get over herself in that regard she's still hot and she never has to work a day in her life it could be worse.
My son knows something is up. He's 10.
I have no ****ing clue how I'm going to handle christmas. My kids are my everything man I'm not going to not be with my kids on Christmas. But when I'm at home Millie is trying to act like aint; **** changed and it is. i tried to crawl in the bed just realliy honestly out of ****ing habit last night and she was trying to hug all up on me and I had to push her off. i'm trying to be a gentlemen about this **** but I mean i want what I want.
I'm trying to not say **** about **** until after christmas. the kids will be going overseas to see their grandparents the day after christmas and that's when I plan to move my **** out. I'll talk to Joe when he gets back. But i'm trying to keep it status quo for another week at least. i don't want my **** ruining christmas anymore so than it already has.
And i mean, I love my wife. I always will,. I love her from the bottom of my heart. I just want to live with and have sex with someone else on a daily basis. I mean we're ovbiousliy going to have good bye break up sex I see this now there is no getting around it.
Biggest decision I got to make is the house. I have the deed to my house. I specifically moved in my house when I was single so that it could not be taken away from me in an event like this. But that was always for security blanket reasons and that was over a decade ago now I'm like meh. I might just give it to her. I can buy another one if I wanted to. Really more than anything I don't want my kids uprooted.
It's been odd. I mean this **** is kinda inconvenient lol. Millie has always liked a good drink and has always drank way more than I have and now she's kinda turned into a depressed alcoholic. I feel bad but she needs to get over herself in that regard she's still hot and she never has to work a day in her life it could be worse.
My son knows something is up. He's 10.
I have no ****ing clue how I'm going to handle christmas. My kids are my everything man I'm not going to not be with my kids on Christmas. But when I'm at home Millie is trying to act like aint; **** changed and it is. i tried to crawl in the bed just realliy honestly out of ****ing habit last night and she was trying to hug all up on me and I had to push her off. i'm trying to be a gentlemen about this **** but I mean i want what I want.
I'm trying to not say **** about **** until after christmas. the kids will be going overseas to see their grandparents the day after christmas and that's when I plan to move my **** out. I'll talk to Joe when he gets back. But i'm trying to keep it status quo for another week at least. i don't want my **** ruining christmas anymore so than it already has.
And i mean, I love my wife. I always will,. I love her from the bottom of my heart. I just want to live with and have sex with someone else on a daily basis. I mean we're ovbiousliy going to have good bye break up sex I see this now there is no getting around it.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.