vanballmoos
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Let me preface this by saying I hate social media.
A good friend of mine set me up with his SO’s friend. We met about 1.5 months ago. We seem to be hitting it off. The issue is, upon finding out, my friend told me she likes every other picture her ex has posted. They broke up in early October. I do know he broke up with her and shortly tried to reconcile, she said no, but then later told him she was struggling with the breakup and he said he was too. Also, they had also discussed marriage and kids.
I’m trying to tell myself it’s just her liking the content. She’ll like her other ex’s pictures too, but he’s from years ago. She’ll even like pictures of old flings that didn’t work out, so maybe she’s just weird?
It wasn’t until recently that my friend’s SO really gave me the details about their breakup- none of which my friend knew prior to setting me up. So apparently after she turned him away she was blowing up his phone saying stuff like the breakup really messed with her, how she wanted to stay but couldn’t. Then a little later the I’m having a hard time message followed. Also, my friend is under the impression that she tried to make him jealous (I don’t agree). She snapped a video of her food and then showed the guy she was on a date with then posted it on social media. This was a few weeks after telling him that she was struggling. Not quite sure showing off your date on social media means you're trying to make someone jealous though.
Anyway, he told her he was hurt but loved her enough to be happy for her to be moving on. She replied with a question mark, and he said your video that you posted. She told him how she loved him very much but they just argued a lot and have issues. Then sent him another message saying it’s not wise to give out information about what may or may not be going on her dating life. He said he wasn’t asking but wished her all the best. She then liked his picture a few days later and I was told she was looking at his social media. This last part happened in November. She’s still liking his stuff now.
Either way should I be worried? I’m fairly interested, but it’s more so I just don’t want to get burned again. I just don’t want to potentially invest in something down the line if there may be a red flag.
A good friend of mine set me up with his SO’s friend. We met about 1.5 months ago. We seem to be hitting it off. The issue is, upon finding out, my friend told me she likes every other picture her ex has posted. They broke up in early October. I do know he broke up with her and shortly tried to reconcile, she said no, but then later told him she was struggling with the breakup and he said he was too. Also, they had also discussed marriage and kids.
I’m trying to tell myself it’s just her liking the content. She’ll like her other ex’s pictures too, but he’s from years ago. She’ll even like pictures of old flings that didn’t work out, so maybe she’s just weird?
It wasn’t until recently that my friend’s SO really gave me the details about their breakup- none of which my friend knew prior to setting me up. So apparently after she turned him away she was blowing up his phone saying stuff like the breakup really messed with her, how she wanted to stay but couldn’t. Then a little later the I’m having a hard time message followed. Also, my friend is under the impression that she tried to make him jealous (I don’t agree). She snapped a video of her food and then showed the guy she was on a date with then posted it on social media. This was a few weeks after telling him that she was struggling. Not quite sure showing off your date on social media means you're trying to make someone jealous though.
Anyway, he told her he was hurt but loved her enough to be happy for her to be moving on. She replied with a question mark, and he said your video that you posted. She told him how she loved him very much but they just argued a lot and have issues. Then sent him another message saying it’s not wise to give out information about what may or may not be going on her dating life. He said he wasn’t asking but wished her all the best. She then liked his picture a few days later and I was told she was looking at his social media. This last part happened in November. She’s still liking his stuff now.
Either way should I be worried? I’m fairly interested, but it’s more so I just don’t want to get burned again. I just don’t want to potentially invest in something down the line if there may be a red flag.
