So last night i met a chick at a club. We exchanged numbers, started texting and talking for hours. Now I would of come over last night but she lived way too far and i didn’t want to drive.
She was all interested in me. Texting me today wanting to hang out.....tonight i was with my friend and invited her over so she came over to my Friends house and she was totally closed off. She seemed stoned...( i know she smokes weed but im not sure if her being high had anything to do with her being closed off)
My problem is this. I feel very strong in my approach/getting the number....and the initial game of texting. But once i get the date, and it’s time to connect...i can’t seal the deal unless i go out with her that day.
Am i being to hard on myself? Or is this something you guys deal with as well?
I flirt, i talk, i escalate....but girls always seem quiet or closed off..when they were literally ready to drop everything to go out with me
She was all interested in me. Texting me today wanting to hang out.....tonight i was with my friend and invited her over so she came over to my Friends house and she was totally closed off. She seemed stoned...( i know she smokes weed but im not sure if her being high had anything to do with her being closed off)
My problem is this. I feel very strong in my approach/getting the number....and the initial game of texting. But once i get the date, and it’s time to connect...i can’t seal the deal unless i go out with her that day.
Am i being to hard on myself? Or is this something you guys deal with as well?
I flirt, i talk, i escalate....but girls always seem quiet or closed off..when they were literally ready to drop everything to go out with me
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