What happened? (Again) need serious help

[captain55]

So last night i met a chick at a club. We exchanged numbers, started texting and talking for hours. Now I would of come over last night but she lived way too far and i didn’t want to drive.

She was all interested in me. Texting me today wanting to hang out.....tonight i was with my friend and invited her over so she came over to my Friends house and she was totally closed off. She seemed stoned...( i know she smokes weed but im not sure if her being high had anything to do with her being closed off)

My problem is this. I feel very strong in my approach/getting the number....and the initial game of texting. But once i get the date, and it’s time to connect...i can’t seal the deal unless i go out with her that day.

Am i being to hard on myself? Or is this something you guys deal with as well?

I flirt, i talk, i escalate....but girls always seem quiet or closed off..when they were literally ready to drop everything to go out with me

 

[Thorninmyside]

texting and talking for hours
texting and talking for hours
texting and talking for hours
texting and talking for hours
texting and talking for hours​

 

[TheGambino]

texting and talking for hours
texting and talking for hours
texting and talking for hours
texting and talking for hours
texting and talking for hours​

THIS MAKES YOU TOO AVAILBLE!!!!!!!!!!! NO CHALLENGE, NO MYSTERY, SHE LOSES INTEREST.

 

[lizardking82]

Sounds to me like your behind the screen game is stronger than the one in real life. Should not be the case.

 

[marmel75]

Started texting and talking for hours says all I need to know. Desperation on your end is way too strong. She smells it from a mile away like a shark smells blood in the water.