"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what will happen next after our blowout

dude99

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can't get into all the details way too much so I'll sum it up...im 35 she's 24. we met months ago she lived in another state but was visiting and we had sex she stayed with me for 2 days...after she left we continued to talk...1.5 months later she came back and ended up staying with me for 1 month...she had to leave due to a situation and left some stuff here. she said she would come back...while she was gone she got distant so I lost judgement and did some jealously games to get her attention...well it did but then it escalated and we went back and forth until we had a blowout.

she said she never wants to talk yadda yadda hung up on me...then she calls back saying she's trying to forgive me but then says you do u I do me says she's single then I'm single...she texts more saying I hurt her told her she hurt me then told her I'm calm and over it becasuee we honeslty were being messed up to each other.
basically said when ur calm and forgiven me let me know.

yesterday no communication at all. so I shoot one text this morning" you want to be done forever then let's be done forever..whats the address you want me to send your stuff pointless to have your stuff here since you can't get over it " left it at that.

she knows I want to fix things and she doesn't as of right now. yes I probably messed up more and approached the situation in the wrong way but she did her share..at the end of the day I'm cool and don't care what she did but she on the other hand isn't having it.

I texted her this morning to bait her into saying something back because if i say get over it lets fix it there will be nothing. so I'm showing her I'm willing to walk away too and let her feel that I won't be there ever again and go at her ego by saying she can't get over it so let's be done...pretty much just putting everything on her. yes go no contact i understand but I have to show her whatever before I do go no contact which starts today.

i think if she truly wants It over she will give me an address to mail it too or say just throw it away. if she doesn't reply then that either means she wants to leave the door open or she just doesn't give a f anymore...but I think the percentages are about 50/50 she will say something.
if no reply then that's it no initiation from me anymore.

I know most of you are gonna say it's over move on find other girls...heres the thing I talk to alot of girls some hotter than her. but I'm not ready to stop fighting for her because that's what I want. part of me fighting for her is acting like I'm not gonna fight for her. I've been spoiled my whole life so I'm use to getting what i want. I will explore options and pursue the options until all options are exhausted. I literally talk to 8 girls on a regular basis so i have options but I don't feel like giving up...yes no more texts after today

Text her this " your shït is in a box on my front porch. If it's still here by the time i get home tonght it's going to the dump."

Then delete her number FB snapcrap twitter what ever and move on with your life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sosousage

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can't get into all the details way too much so I'll sum it up...im 35 she's 24. we met months ago she lived in another state but was visiting and we had sex she stayed with me for 2 days...after she left we continued to talk...1.5 months later she came back and ended up staying with me for 1 month...she had to leave due to a situation and left some stuff here. she said she would come back...while she was gone she got distant so I lost judgement and did some jealously games to get her attention...well it did but then it escalated and we went back and forth until we had a blowout.

she said she never wants to talk yadda yadda hung up on me...then she calls back saying she's trying to forgive me but then says you do u I do me says she's single then I'm single...she texts more saying I hurt her told her she hurt me then told her I'm calm and over it becasuee we honeslty were being messed up to each other.
basically said when ur calm and forgiven me let me know.

yesterday no communication at all. so I shoot one text this morning" you want to be done forever then let's be done forever..whats the address you want me to send your stuff pointless to have your stuff here since you can't get over it " left it at that.

she knows I want to fix things and she doesn't as of right now. yes I probably messed up more and approached the situation in the wrong way but she did her share..at the end of the day I'm cool and don't care what she did but she on the other hand isn't having it.

I texted her this morning to bait her into saying something back because if i say get over it lets fix it there will be nothing. so I'm showing her I'm willing to walk away too and let her feel that I won't be there ever again and go at her ego by saying she can't get over it so let's be done...pretty much just putting everything on her. yes go no contact i understand but I have to show her whatever before I do go no contact which starts today.

i think if she truly wants It over she will give me an address to mail it too or say just throw it away. if she doesn't reply then that either means she wants to leave the door open or she just doesn't give a f anymore...but I think the percentages are about 50/50 she will say something.
if no reply then that's it no initiation from me anymore.

I know most of you are gonna say it's over move on find other girls...heres the thing I talk to alot of girls some hotter than her. but I'm not ready to stop fighting for her because that's what I want. part of me fighting for her is acting like I'm not gonna fight for her. I've been spoiled my whole life so I'm use to getting what i want. I will explore options and pursue the options until all options are exhausted. I literally talk to 8 girls on a regular basis so i have options but I don't feel like giving up...yes no more texts after today

my advice: get laid or die tryin'
 

marmel75

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you forgot to declare these variables so program knows if these are string or boolean rather than int or char.
Hahaha, its a JSON object, i should have put a header call in there. Lmao!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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