I feel like I deserve better...

[RichardTheFrog]

The only girl I'm really talking to right now I just met accidentally on Seeking Arrangement and started talking because she didn't want money. She is 19. I'm 30. She looked okay in her profile picture, but not as good in other pictures she's sent me. She was born in United States, both her parents from Bangladesh. She's getting an arranged marriage in 6 years and just having fun until then.

I feel like I deserve better than this, but then again... I don't really go out much.

On the plus side, she'll do whatever I want sexually. It's free sex, but I'm not happy with her looks, and I'm also not happy with the fact that it was just luck that made it happen. Luck isn't something you can repeat on purpose.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

One thing I noticed when talking to this girl is that I don't just talk about sex. You literally can't talk about sex 24/7. I end up talking about politics and other topics, and sometimes am afraid I'm going to say a political opinion that would make her stop talking to me. Such as that I'm pro-Trump and anti-immigration. But she hasn't stopped talking yet and I think wants to have a threesome.

I need to find a way to meet more college girls.

 

[marmel75]

Why are you talking about politics?? Why don't you talk about something that's actually interesting to women? Don't be one of those dudes...

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Why are you talking about politics?? Why don't you talk about something that's actually interesting to women? Don't be one of those dudes...

What's interesting to them??

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Another thing significant about this is that it is obvious that I couldn't meet a girl IN PERSON and be talking like this. The Internet allows me the anonymity and impersonalization to talk as dirty as I want. This girl is saying I can fvck her all night, fvck her in the mouth, cvm on her boobs, and she'll be my little slvt. I couldn't meet a girl FACE TO FACE and start talking like this. It's not socially acceptable for one. I see girls every time I leave my house. Do some of them find me attractive? Most likely. But nothing ever gets going.

 

[Atom Smasher]

You need to get yourself socially educated. The only way to do this is to get out there and be sociable. Small-talk with strangers on a daily basis was my ticket to social calibration.

 

[Reykhel]

What's interesting to them??

Their most interesting subject is.......themselves.

You could go the Dale Carnegie route and "become genuinely interested in other people". What makes them tick? What are they passionate about? What are their hopes and goals? What did they want to be when they were younger? (this one will actually often reveal their "satisfaction with life")

Practically everyone loves to talk about themselves......it's an easy start to becoming a good conversationalist / social competent...

Get them talking about themselves.....

To avoid being supplicating/turn up attraction a little? Tease them a little on what the talk about, banter. Always with a smile so it's clear you're just having fun with them.

The next level would be avoiding questions at the beginning until you're well into comfort, and simply making assumptions about her or accusations....all in a cheeky teasing good vibes manner

People are fascinating creatures, everybody has some sort of story to tell.....you can learn something from everyone, even if it maybe simply another psychology lesson (devolving into people's souls can make you very astute in reading people)

 

[BeExcellent]

It's Friday evening Richard. Get out of your house, smile & socialize somewhere.

Otherwise you'll never progress.

 

[sosousage]

The only girl I'm really talking to right now I just met accidentally on Seeking Arrangement and started talking because she didn't want money. She is 19. I'm 30. She looked okay in her profile picture, but not as good in other pictures she's sent me. She was born in United States, both her parents from Bangladesh. She's getting an arranged marriage in 6 years and just having fun until then.

I feel like I deserve better than this, but then again... I don't really go out much.

On the plus side, she'll do whatever I want sexually. It's free sex, but I'm not happy with her looks, and I'm also not happy with the fact that it was just luck that made it happen. Luck isn't something you can repeat on purpose.

are you the guy who was into paying for sex? seems it doesnt work long term?

 

[Solomon]

No offense but OP sounds like a "social robot"
I highly recommend OP immerse himself in the field GET OF SA
that place is filled with nothing wh0res and girls who are ratchet

 

[sosousage]

No offense but OP sounds like a "social robot"
I highly recommend OP immerse himself in the field GET OF SA
that place is filled with nothing wh0res and girls who are ratchet

SA? what you mean

 

[marmel75]

You don't "deserve" anything. You get what you make happen.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

No offense but OP sounds like a "social robot"
I highly recommend OP immerse himself in the field GET OF SA
that place is filled with nothing wh0res and girls who are ratchet

When I go out, I usually sit quiet by myself. Seems like everyone else at the bar/club already knows each other.

Plus, I'm usually drunk off my a$$ after 2 hours.

 

[Solomon]

You don't "deserve" anything. You get what you make happen.

amen!!!! and like

When I go out, I usually sit quiet by myself. Seems like everyone else at the bar/club already knows each other.

Plus, I'm usually drunk off my a$$ after 2 hours.

If you're drunk of your a$$ you doing it wrong, you should be focused when you're HUNTING unless you just there to get sloshed

 

[dustmuffin]

Richard, be thankful for what you have. Have fun with her and leave it at that. Not every encounter is going to lead to an epiphany. You think to much.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

amen!!!! and like


If you're drunk of your a$$ you doing it wrong, you should be focused when you're HUNTING unless you just there to get sloshed

Usually I don't see anything worth hunting.

I'm 100% serious when I make posts saying that I barely see any value in females. Even their looks gets old after 10 minutes. And if they have any kind of bad attitude, then I'll just be cold to them.

 

[Solomon]

Usually I don't see anything worth hunting.

I'm 100% serious when I make posts saying that I barely see any value in females. Even their looks gets old after 10 minutes. And if they have any kind of bad attitude, then I'll just be cold to them.

I'm curious where do you live mate?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I'm curious where do you live mate?

Orlando, FL, USA.

 

[marmel75]

Usually I don't see anything worth hunting.

I'm 100% serious when I make posts saying that I barely see any value in females. Even their looks gets old after 10 minutes. And if they have any kind of bad attitude, then I'll just be cold to them.

OK then why bother posting on here then? From what I can tell, the feeling is mutual between you and the women.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

OK then why bother posting on here then? From what I can tell, the feeling is mutual between you and the women.

No actually a lot of them have liked me. Hot ones, too.