Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I was saying taking turns, hitting the accelerator, braking real hard, drifting, etc... LOL. I like to max their pleasure out and mines too. Not trying to torture no one!I view it as an act of domination and punishment...and use my c0ck, fingers, tongue and hands as the weapons of choice, hahaha
What you're offering them is their own desire. Nothing more nothing less. Yes, under certain circumstances, sex is an exchange - i.e the type of sex you are obsessing over. But sex can also JUST be a fulfillment of mutual desire. You don't really seem to grasp this concept.OK fair enough. But then if you can't say "the idea that women don't like sex as much as men is a myth." You have to preface it with "as long as you are offering use for them."
True enough.If you are smooth enough it can easily work the other way too.
I earn an average wage and am slightly above average in height. That doesn't mean I'm 100% successful though.what do you do and how tall are you
My friend if this really is your mindset, I can't really help you. It troubles me that your thought process works this way. It's like the polar opposite mentality of what is going to get you laid. What someone does for a living is only one aspect of their desirability. What reading have you done? Have you even studied the DJB?Being desirable has nothing to do with getting women. It's not a cause and effect issue. I know Doctors, Surgeons, Top musicians, and Hollywood Directors that asked others to set them up, they are as "desirable" as it gets.
That's like saying humans prefer air to water, since we breathe more than we drink, and we seem to be much more worried about not breathing than not drinking.Most women actually prefer and get off from arguing as opposed to having sex.
It satisfies their need for emotional drama in ways that sex can't.
I guess I don't.What you're offering them is their own desire. Nothing more nothing less. Yes, under certain circumstances, sex is an exchange - i.e the type of sex you are obsessing over. But sex can also JUST be a fulfillment of mutual desire. You don't really seem to grasp this concept.
You are at an average wage and above in height, yet good looking women are crying because you won't give them enough sex? Come on bro, does that make sense to you?I earn an average wage and am slightly above average in height. That doesn't mean I'm 100% successful though.
I just don't agree with your word "desirable" and sex is "mutual desire." If you change the word "desirable" with "use", we agree.My friend if this really is your mindset, I can't really help you. It troubles me that your thought process works this way. It's like the polar opposite mentality of what is going to get you laid. What someone does for a living is only one aspect of their desirability. What reading have you done? Have you even studied the DJB?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
They also get off from instagram likes more than actual co ckMost women actually prefer and get off from arguing as opposed to having sex.
It satisfies their need for emotional drama in ways that sex can't.
Phuck these hoes.Most women actually prefer and get off from arguing as opposed to having sex.
It satisfies their need for emotional drama in ways that sex can't.
It kinda sounds like you enjoy the drama as well. Why would you choose to stay with a female that is not only dramatic, but that pushes your buttons? and in a way that makes you want to retaliate?She can invite me to go out with her friends and I will provide so much drama and conflict that she will need medications to keep her mental health.
I can troll the sh1t out of them, piss them off, behave like a 90s wrestler, point their weakness and so on...when they push me too much they usually regret it and cry exhausted.
I make it clear from the beginning that if they fvck with me then I fvck with them and there is no limit of holy ground...they know I like it much more than they do.
I also get off from that, if I can have a femnale group of friends to throw stuff at each other after a trolling attack, my brain will come so hard that eroine will do jack&sh1t compared to it.
I'm done trying to reason logically with women, they get me drama I get them trolling.
Sex is not for the woman. Its for the man.Probably because 95% of guys are terrible at sex.
That's because most men are so timid and weak around women they get bored out of their minds lol.Most women actually prefer and get off from arguing as opposed to having sex.
It satisfies their need for emotional drama in ways that sex can't.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lol you think I'm bigneil?
Lol, that's just exactly something he would say "are you a woman?". Just don't start to call people put by nationally or mention welfare, ok?Lol you think I'm bigneil?
I know women enjoy sex, but guys LIVE for sex. Sex is for us.
Same as men enjoy relationships and marriage, but women LIVE for relationships.
no he would say that we are virgins and are attacking himLol, that's just exactly something he would say "are you a woman?". Just don't start to call people put by nationally or mention welfare, ok?![]()
If I had to read your post and guess who was the author I would have undoubdetly said a middle aged woman.It kinda sounds like you enjoy the drama as well. Why would you choose to stay with a female that is not only dramatic, but that pushes your buttons? and in a way that makes you want to retaliate?
The way you post about it, it's as if you want everyone to believe this is how you maintain frame over the female. but once you allow someone to get you to the point where you want to retaliate, the frame is totally in their hands, they are the ones directing.
This is why it's better to pull back and go NC and/or clearly state your boundaries and what you will and will not tolerate in the relationship. Her level of respect for you, and her clarity on what a healthy relationship is, will be revealed when you make it clear verbally what your standards are.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The simplest way to make your life easier with women is to fvck them better than anyone ever has. Do that and you'll never have to worry about getting laid again in your life. Men should strive for excellence in all endeavors they participate it.Sex is not for the woman. Its for the man.
Are you a woman?
Lmao there's always a haterIf I had to read your post and guess who was the author I would have undoubdetly said a middle aged woman.
That amount of patronizing, shaming and random blue pilled nonsense while producing nothing useful in such a natural way can hardly come from any other demographics.
Reading your posts got me closer to andropause.
Don't make me laugh.The simplest way to make your life easier with women is to fvck them better than anyone ever has. Do that and you'll never have to worry about getting laid again in your life. Men should strive for excellence in all endeavors they participate it.
But I guess that's too much work to go from where you are at in the bedroom to actually being good huh?
Impress? No. Dominate and punish using your c0ck as the weapon of choice.Don't make me laugh.
You're telling me I should try to impress high mileage sluts? Only women with lots of experience even know what good sex is lol.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.