"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Apparently I'm creepy or something?

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So I met a girl on Seeking Arrangement. Super hot. She asked why I was on a site since I was so young and good looking (her words). I told her that Tinder and POF and all that has been a waste of time for me and that I don't mind paying for better looking girls.

She started talking about how old guys LOVE spoiling young girls. She is about to turn 23.

We talked for a little bit about interests and all that, but that only gets you so far before you have to talk about something OF SUBSTANCE.

I asked if she had a regular boyfriend. She said "no" and that she was a one-man woman.

So I asked if that meant that she would be sexually monogamous once she finds her sugar daddy. She said yes.

I asked her if she had any fvck buddies or anything. She said no she didn't need them. Then she told me "wtf, you're being creepy."

So apparently asking these types of questions is creepy? Even though that is the meat of the issue and the whole point, isn't it? Do I just have to be subtle about it or what? I have gotten results being non-subtle about this in the past.... I wonder if it's just this particular girl who finds this type of talk creepy.

I basically knew I wasn't going to meet her once I found out she wasn't going to be just a one-time prostitute. It's not worth it to me to put any effort in because that's all I really want and I know I can get that other places.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So apparently asking these types of questions is creepy?
Yes, they are. You're supposed to be able to figure that stuff out without asking blatantly.

That's the way it goes. Learn to play the game or step aside.

AND just because they are on seeking arrangement they don't consider themselves hookers. So don't talk to them like that, or it won't work.
 
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Yes, they are. You're supposed to be able to figure that stuff out without asking blatantly.

That's the way it goes. Learn to play the game or step aside.

AND just because they are on seeking arrangement they don't consider themselves hookers. So don't talk to them like that, or it won't work.
Except that it has worked many times. So many times that it's gotten boring.

Perhaps it's just screening for what I'm looking for.

So many people give advice on this forum, yet NO ONE can do this...

Show hot girls that you're ****ing for free. Can you?
 

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Except that it has worked many times. So many times that it's gotten boring.

Perhaps it's just screening for what I'm looking for.

So many people give advice on this forum, yet NO ONE can do this...

Show hot girls that you're ****ing for free. Can you?
Well...you have all the answers apparently. What's the point of posting and asking questions when you are just going to do whatever you want anyway? You've already been giving multitudes of answers by people who have done exactly what you are looking to do without coming off as a sex-crazed weirdo or a creep, and yet those are never the right answers. Be gone troll. Blocked.
 
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Well...you have all the answers apparently. What's the point of posting and asking questions when you are just going to do whatever you want anyway? You've already been giving multitudes of answers by people who have done exactly what you are looking to do without coming off as a sex-crazed weirdo or a creep, and yet those are never the right answers. Be gone troll. Blocked.
I have never listened to any of YOUR answers because you don't get results.

Nobody on here has done what I'm looking to do.

Are you suggesting that I take her out for a nice coffee? Then, hopefully, if I pass her "tests" and we have "chemistry" whatever that means.... Then she will allow me to PAY HER for sex... All the while I have to keep up some illusion that it's not all about sex because that would upset her fragile little nonsense hamster brain?

Also the fact that I would get bored after one time and want to go to someone else unless she was offering for free. Because all I wanted to do was **** her once anyway, and I don't even want to do that that bad.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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lol at you failing SA game, I had a couple of buddies who did that, banged a buncha hot chicks one ended up getting an STD though, be careful mate
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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lol at you failing SA game, I had a couple of buddies who did that, banged a buncha hot chicks one ended up getting an STD though, be careful mate
Well I could have ****ed lots of them by now if I would follow through with it. Like over 100. I don't see the point in pretending I want to be their "sugar daddy" when I'm really just looking for someone to come over once and then never talk to them again.

What STD? One that is curable?
 

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Haha FROG finally realised what he wants in life rofl I got b1tches for you bra come out to Cali bring your checkbook, I guarantee you won't leave till you get syphilis XD
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well I could have ****ed lots of them by now if I would follow through with it. Like over 100. I don't see the point in pretending I want to be their "sugar daddy" when I'm really just looking for someone to come over once and then never talk to them again.

What STD? One that is curable?
Mate SA chicks are easy if you just wanna bang away

For me I don't have the energy to do "scumbag" game it takes to much effort and having girls ask you for money after would feel so awkward I rather rub one out than to pretend to pay for it
 
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Mate SA chicks are easy if you just wanna bang away

For me I don't have the energy to do "scumbag" game it takes to much effort and having girls ask you for money after would feel so awkward I rather rub one out than to pretend to pay for it
I know. I have probably 100 that agreed to meet then I never followed through.

I can't imagine any girl being stupid enough to **** before getting cash, and it's not really about saving $200 to me.

This post was really about how ridiculous the girls are. They make no sense. This one wants to trade sex for money, but not in such a way that makes her blatantly a hooker. I think a lot of girls do this, and I mean women in the real world, not on SA. They want to hold on to the fantasy that they're not a hooker.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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