"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Apparently I'm creepy or something?

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So I met a girl on Seeking Arrangement. Super hot. She asked why I was on a site since I was so young and good looking (her words). I told her that Tinder and POF and all that has been a waste of time for me and that I don't mind paying for better looking girls.

She started talking about how old guys LOVE spoiling young girls. She is about to turn 23.

We talked for a little bit about interests and all that, but that only gets you so far before you have to talk about something OF SUBSTANCE.

I asked if she had a regular boyfriend. She said "no" and that she was a one-man woman.

So I asked if that meant that she would be sexually monogamous once she finds her sugar daddy. She said yes.

I asked her if she had any fvck buddies or anything. She said no she didn't need them. Then she told me "wtf, you're being creepy."

So apparently asking these types of questions is creepy? Even though that is the meat of the issue and the whole point, isn't it? Do I just have to be subtle about it or what? I have gotten results being non-subtle about this in the past.... I wonder if it's just this particular girl who finds this type of talk creepy.

I basically knew I wasn't going to meet her once I found out she wasn't going to be just a one-time prostitute. It's not worth it to me to put any effort in because that's all I really want and I know I can get that other places.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So apparently asking these types of questions is creepy?
Yes, they are. You're supposed to be able to figure that stuff out without asking blatantly.

That's the way it goes. Learn to play the game or step aside.

AND just because they are on seeking arrangement they don't consider themselves hookers. So don't talk to them like that, or it won't work.
 
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Yes, they are. You're supposed to be able to figure that stuff out without asking blatantly.

That's the way it goes. Learn to play the game or step aside.

AND just because they are on seeking arrangement they don't consider themselves hookers. So don't talk to them like that, or it won't work.
Except that it has worked many times. So many times that it's gotten boring.

Perhaps it's just screening for what I'm looking for.

So many people give advice on this forum, yet NO ONE can do this...

Show hot girls that you're ****ing for free. Can you?
 

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Except that it has worked many times. So many times that it's gotten boring.

Perhaps it's just screening for what I'm looking for.

So many people give advice on this forum, yet NO ONE can do this...

Show hot girls that you're ****ing for free. Can you?
Well...you have all the answers apparently. What's the point of posting and asking questions when you are just going to do whatever you want anyway? You've already been giving multitudes of answers by people who have done exactly what you are looking to do without coming off as a sex-crazed weirdo or a creep, and yet those are never the right answers. Be gone troll. Blocked.
 
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Well...you have all the answers apparently. What's the point of posting and asking questions when you are just going to do whatever you want anyway? You've already been giving multitudes of answers by people who have done exactly what you are looking to do without coming off as a sex-crazed weirdo or a creep, and yet those are never the right answers. Be gone troll. Blocked.
I have never listened to any of YOUR answers because you don't get results.

Nobody on here has done what I'm looking to do.

Are you suggesting that I take her out for a nice coffee? Then, hopefully, if I pass her "tests" and we have "chemistry" whatever that means.... Then she will allow me to PAY HER for sex... All the while I have to keep up some illusion that it's not all about sex because that would upset her fragile little nonsense hamster brain?

Also the fact that I would get bored after one time and want to go to someone else unless she was offering for free. Because all I wanted to do was **** her once anyway, and I don't even want to do that that bad.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lol at you failing SA game, I had a couple of buddies who did that, banged a buncha hot chicks one ended up getting an STD though, be careful mate
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol at you failing SA game, I had a couple of buddies who did that, banged a buncha hot chicks one ended up getting an STD though, be careful mate
Well I could have ****ed lots of them by now if I would follow through with it. Like over 100. I don't see the point in pretending I want to be their "sugar daddy" when I'm really just looking for someone to come over once and then never talk to them again.

What STD? One that is curable?
 

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Haha FROG finally realised what he wants in life rofl I got b1tches for you bra come out to Cali bring your checkbook, I guarantee you won't leave till you get syphilis XD
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well I could have ****ed lots of them by now if I would follow through with it. Like over 100. I don't see the point in pretending I want to be their "sugar daddy" when I'm really just looking for someone to come over once and then never talk to them again.

What STD? One that is curable?
Mate SA chicks are easy if you just wanna bang away

For me I don't have the energy to do "scumbag" game it takes to much effort and having girls ask you for money after would feel so awkward I rather rub one out than to pretend to pay for it
 
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Mate SA chicks are easy if you just wanna bang away

For me I don't have the energy to do "scumbag" game it takes to much effort and having girls ask you for money after would feel so awkward I rather rub one out than to pretend to pay for it
I know. I have probably 100 that agreed to meet then I never followed through.

I can't imagine any girl being stupid enough to **** before getting cash, and it's not really about saving $200 to me.

This post was really about how ridiculous the girls are. They make no sense. This one wants to trade sex for money, but not in such a way that makes her blatantly a hooker. I think a lot of girls do this, and I mean women in the real world, not on SA. They want to hold on to the fantasy that they're not a hooker.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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