"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Strangest convo of OLD thus far.
- Thread starter LimaBean
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
RichardTheFrog
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And these are the guys who try to talk sh1t to me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
LimaBean
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I don't even particularly like sleeping w/ mothers. Not a chance
You really think I'm going to smash? I said this ones for my enjoyment. It's a pregnant chick on tinder. Did it for the lul's
LimaBean
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We're all going to be okay
CMNILS87
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Lol baby names got a chuckle out of that. I doubt she's pregnant, just messing with you. Pregnant girls aren't on tinder. They got more **** to worry about bedsides getting laid
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LimaBean
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Nope. Did some investigating, she is indeed pregnant.
I do like your optimism. I thought the same at first.
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BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
WTF do you mean? If she's definitely pregnant, I'd be tapping it like no tomorrow. Not like she can get MORE pregnant.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
LMAO! The sh!t girls will write. "I dont know why I'm on here". Yes you do, you want to ride as many c*cks as possible before the kid gets here. This isn't hard to figure out. OP, hit it, hit it good, multiple creampies...hit it for all of us here.