"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How to become girls' f uck buddies?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
1. She already has 2 and doesn't need any more
2. I live too far away (90 minutes)
3. She doesn't know how I am in bed.
#3 doesn't really make sense because how would she ever know without trying first, so it's kind of a "chicken or egg" thing.
But then we started arguing and I told her that she could be overweight for all I know because her pictures are only shoulders up, to which she confirmed that she is, in fact, fat (and proud!).
But it's not so much anything particular about her. It's just using her as an example for how girls work.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
She even told me the specific 3 reasons why.
(The fat girl with 4 cats that she named after video game characters who has no good job and watches TV all day)
MatureDJ
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RichardTheFrog
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Yea show me your girls.
LimaBean
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I think it's obvious which guys here are getting laid and which aren't. Instead of asking guys to show pics of their girls for you to jerk your shrimp to, go outside and live a little. Find a hobby. IDC what you do but don't stay at your house for 40 days straight and not take a shower for a week. Jesus son. You think you're not going to be a boring cvnt? i wouldn't want to fvck a girl that did **** like you, even if she was hot. Expand your mind, vocabulary, social skills, and work out every day. Eventually you will get pvssy. But by you telling us even a fat girl won't sleep with you, it's obviously you, not the girls.
LimaBean
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LOL
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Except that I get attention from hot girls when I do go out and I don't even need to waste my life in a gym.
I think you CAN'T show pictures of your girls, Mr. Muscle Boy.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
You talk all kinds of sh1t but you can't back it up.
You spend your whole life in the gym to get what?
Oh and what do you do and how much do you make in a year? But I suppose that doesn't matter to you little boys who still live in the gym.
Von
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Bad attention will not get you laid.
We have been generous with you, hope you'll make something out of it and not be here in 10years posting the same stuff like some users here
Putting you on the ignore list.... good success in life
RichardTheFrog
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LimaBean
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The gym is my hobby, so is photography, rock climbing, working on vehicles, yoga, painting, etc. I know how to converse with people, i stay in shape, and i'm not boring. This is why i get laid. There's not much more to it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes I also once was declined by some fat unsure woman that once said yes and then "NO!!" but idc. She weighed 3 times more than me broke my bed and so on.
Anyway I now am texting some other "fat" chick thats not even "beutiful" but much less fat than that whale. Shes really into me because im tall and doing gym and all that **** i rate my market value bigger than her. But problem is she is fat and ugly and im ashamed to bring her home because parents and neighbours will see
she says shes doing gym nearly everyday for quite some time but shes still fat . . . im hoping one day she will be slim and id invite her because she wants it and i want it but i dont wanna look like desperate in eyes of anyone who sees her (starting from my parents), i wouldnt look them in the eyes.POF etc is a disaster. i dnt knw what to do
LimaBean
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Keep sleeping with big girls. Who cares. If that's what you like then do your thing. If that's not what you want and you're embarrassed of them then slowly increase your confidence and standards until your sleeping with the beautiful women you want to. That's what I and most men here have done.Yes I also once was declined by some fat unsure woman that once said yes and then "NO!!" but idc. She weighed 3 times more than me broke my bed and so on.
Anyway I now am texting some other "fat" chick thats not even "beutiful" but much less fat than that whale. Shes really into me because im tall and doing gym and all that **** i rate my market value bigger than her. But problem is she is fat and ugly and im ashamed to bring her home because parents and neighbours will see
POF etc is a disaster. i dnt knw what to do
marmel75
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I cringe....you are the dude the women there have stories of that they tell me the crazy stuff you did and we have a laugh about it...
beforeimgone
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LOL
RichardTheFrog
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Or not.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.