"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Been talking to thus girl for about a month now....

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I've met this girl online and we finally ended up hanging out. First day we hangout was fun we watched a movie and hookedup and has sex. We hung out a total of 3 times and had sex every time and we went out for dinner the 3rd time and I bought the dinner. She was very interested in me firs 2 or 3 weeks. Ever since then we've still been talking but she's gone distant on me and ignores my texts and called her twice she never answered. She'll text back but usually she just ignores it or sends a small one word response And I've asked her out to hangout and do stuff but she said she was going to the coast this weekend and I asked her again later a few days later and she told.me she will let me know when shes not busy. She also said she was driving home when she didn't respond the one time. But I'm just confused was wondering if anyone had any sound advice cuz I do like this girl .
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Let her be. She's probably confused over someone else that she might be in love with. Best advice? Retreat your "troops", pursue other options, hit her up again in about 1-2 weeks, if she doesn';t hit you up that is.
 
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lizardking82 said:
Let her be. She's probably confused over someone else that she might be in love with. Best advice? Retreat your "troops", pursue other options, hit her up again in about 1-2 weeks, if she doesn';t hit you up that is.
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that's what I'll do i wouldn't be surprised if she was trying to get witj her ex or seeing another dude she met at the bar. Thanks
 
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