"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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To the women on here

penkitten

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Who is this @penkitten that you speak of?

Fork her over!:p
Sorry for the delay but I just caught this thread.
There have always been a few women posters on this forum. Some will only ask a few questions and eventually get bored of the site and stop logging in. Others of us stumble in and stay because there really isn't another forum like it.
I grew up here. I met some of my best friends here. I also met my husband here.
I haven't been on here daily for a few years now. It's not you guys, y'all are great. It's just I was busy prioritizing work, home, husband, kids.
An update for you guys- the older 3 kids have all graduated. One graduated basic and is training in my father's footsteps with the 101st and will be deployed in the next year.
One is in nursing school and has gotten married and has had to move across the country to where my new son in law is stationed. The youngest has been acting out and seems to be much better now.
I turned 40 yesterday.
So, it's been busy for me.

I may not be able to log in daily but I do try to come in and post when I can.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sorry for the delay but I just caught this thread.
There have always been a few women posters on this forum. Some will only ask a few questions and eventually get bored of the site and stop logging in. Others of us stumble in and stay because there really isn't another forum like it.
I grew up here. I met some of my best friends here. I also met my husband here.
I haven't been on here daily for a few years now. It's not you guys, y'all are great. It's just I was busy prioritizing work, home, husband, kids.
An update for you guys- the older 3 kids have all graduated. One graduated basic and is training in my father's footsteps with the 101st and will be deployed in the next year.
One is in nursing school and has gotten married and has had to move across the country to where my new son in law is stationed. The youngest has been acting out and seems to be much better now.
I turned 40 yesterday.
So, it's been busy for me.

I may not be able to log in daily but I do try to come in and post when I can.
Happy late birthday and may this year be blessed :)
 

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BeTheChange

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the women who come here are usually pretty nice people and fair minded, unicorn status in that regard. A good breath of fresh air for those of us in the game.
I dunno....you kind of expect this from post wall women. Most are 15/20+ years post wall too. Wiser by necessity not by virtue.

If you had hot 22 year olds here talking like LiveYourDream then you might have a point. But that's not the case at all.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thank you. 40 feels great.
40? I don't even remember 40, lol.
I do remember one thing about my 40s though, they were basically the same thing as my 30s.
 
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