"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think I finally understand what some of the Indian and Asian guys harp on about here

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Apparently, Rihanna has a new man and he's hispanic. I think it was either @Good Gao or @Listen_to_Olly that said something about how Hollywood and the liberal media determine which race, body type, age etc is the new "in-thing" for women to date because women have a herd mentality. I went through some of the Twitter reactions to Rihanna and the general consensus among most of the women is how they suddenly want their own "Spanish boo" and such:

"Rihanna has taught me that If he not foreign he boring"

"now everyone likes Latin/Hispanic guys because of Rihanna? lmaoo"

"rihanna got a bae in spain, now i need a bae in spain."

"me: i don't need a man!! tmz: RIHANNA SEEN MAKING OUT W NEW MAN IN SPAIN. me, getting ready to find myself a Spanish boo too"

"RIHANNA HAS A MAN MEANING I NEED TO FIND ONE NOW!!!!"

"Well that settles it. Rihanna is getting **** so I have to start getting **** again no excuses"

I can see why most Indian or Asian men aren't really as desired as white, black and latinos. Most of their media representation tend to be the FOBs, computer nerds, social outcast etc. Once a couple of celebrities start dating Asian men, it will probably become the next in-thing for women to find themselves an "Asian boo".
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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To be fair... He looks more like the white Castilian Latino that the Mexican or PR Latino....
 

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I am not interested in black chicks, so I really couldn't care less.
 

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Asian women want professionals ...... who are white (if they live in SF).

El Payaso is correct. Good thing for me is that I'm not a FOB and I have really good taste in women. I'm not going to go for a HB 5 just to get laid. If I don't get laid it's usually my fault which is why I'm ok with it. I'm not upset about the race thing. I would never date a black girl so it's fine if white girls don't want to date Indian guys. I can't be a hypocrite.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rihanna is ugly as ****.

I heard her some "Sex With Me" at the strip club the other day.

Is this honestly what she thinks of herself? It's a shame that she gets to corrupt minds.

I wonder what modern girls would be like if their minds weren't so corrupted by garbage.
 
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Asian women want professionals ...... who are white (if they live in SF).

El Payaso is correct. Good thing for me is that I'm not a FOB and I have really good taste in women. I'm not going to go for a HB 5 just to get laid. If I don't get laid it's usually my fault which is why I'm ok with it. I'm not upset about the race thing. I would never date a black girl so it's fine if white girls don't want to date Indian guys. I can't be a hypocrite.
Why does it matter what women want?

Do they have anything to offer? They have no respect, loyalty, have ridden the **** carousel for years, and can't pair bond.
 

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Rihanna is ugly as ****.

I heard her some "Sex With Me" at the strip club the other day.

Is this honestly what she thinks of herself? It's a shame that she gets to corrupt minds.

I wonder what modern girls would be like if their minds weren't so corrupted by garbage.
It'll be another "Rihanna" in 5 years and another and another and another. Those entertainers are part of the "game". You might as well get something out of it. "I saw your girl Rihanna had that bathing suit on, you should get one!"
 
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For the record I don't mean that Asian women in Cali are high quality. They are among the most superficial. But I like superficial women because it gives me something to strive for. There is a logical way to impress them and it makes sense. Things like going to college, working out, and making a lot of money gets you the superficial pvssy. What I can't stand are irrational hot women who go for ray ray and pookie who just came out of prison. That pisses me off because it invalidates all the measures I took to become successful in life.
Can you make any sense of why some women go for "Ray Ray and Pookie?"

We were having a discussion about this not too long ago, I believe while you were still banned.

Is it just because they scare people?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It's the culture. In Cali, if you don't have money, you better stay home. Your own friends will make fun of you for being a loser. In more urban cities like Atlanta or Philly, the culture is that being ignorant or gangster is cool. Nobody wants to grow up.

In San Francisco, people want to switch to khakis and Sperry shoes as quickly as possible to show off status. In Philly, wearing loafers means you are over the hill. The culture in ghetto cities is ass backwards and promotes bummy living. Women are simply herd creatures. They adopt whatever environment they are in.
Yea, seriously. I hate that culture.

When you go out here (Orlando, FL), you can make $100,000/year, but people act like you're stupid if you haven't heard the newest greatest hip-hop song. It's ****ing stupid. And, unfortunately, the girls just follow the crowd.
 

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This only applies to nerdy fresh off the boat Asians. This shouldn't even be a discussion because since when have women have gotten slippery wet over nerdy men?...Never. I see alpha ftb Asians with hot Asian women and I see Americanized Asians with white women all the time. Also, I'm ending this Asian vs black male debate. Quit comparing nerd ass Asians to black athletes or thugs with white women. Of course you're going to see a disparity because women have never liked nerds and always liked bad boys and jocks. Compare an Asian nerd to a black nerd and the Asian wins. Compare an Alpha Asian to an Alpha black and the Alpha Asian easily comes out on top. The only black men that get laid are ray ray and pookies and athletes and I still wouldn't touch the white women they are getting because they are trash. An Alpha Asian can easily get the 95% of white women remaining that are against dating a black guy. In addition, they have access to Asian women while black men have black women yay:/ Y'all Asians don't have it that bad, so quit the whining please!
 

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This only applies to nerdy fresh off the boat Asians. This shouldn't even be a discussion because since when have women have gotten slippery wet over nerdy men?...Never. I see alpha ftb Asians with hot Asian women and I see Americanized Asians with white women all the time. Also, I'm ending this Asian vs black male debate. Quit comparing nerd ass Asians to black athletes or thugs with white women. Of course you're going to see a disparity because women have never liked nerds and always liked bad boys and jocks. Compare an Asian nerd to a black nerd and the Asian wins. Compare an Alpha Asian to an Alpha black and the Alpha Asian easily comes out on top. The only black men that get laid are ray ray and pookies and athletes and I still wouldn't touch the white women they are getting because they are trash. An Alpha Asian can easily get the 95% of white women remaining that are against dating a black guy. In addition, they have access to Asian women while black men have black women yay:/ Y'all Asians don't have it that bad, so quit the whining please!
True but there are way more Asian nerds than black nerds. Most black guys I see are freaking alpha. I see guys who are completely jacked and don't even work out. Not to mention their ***** size is probably way bigger than asians. I see very professional looking where women in SF with black guys, they clean up in CA. I think black guys have an unfair advantage.
 

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Rihanna is ugly as ****.

I heard her some "Sex With Me" at the strip club the other day.

Is this honestly what she thinks of herself? It's a shame that she gets to corrupt minds.

I wonder what modern girls would be like if their minds weren't so corrupted by garbage.
Not really the point of the post but okay.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This latino fad in Chicago has been going on for over a decade.....white girls drooling over Puerto Rican men, who are just using these white women as *** rags (for the most part) In the suburbs white girls are digging Mexican men more cause that is the type of latino that is dominant out there
 

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OP your analysis is correct. However, I would say that those tweets your cited were jokes. Hollywood and media does help shape the perception and desiranility of race/culture, however this isn't an example of it. People there are being silly, I doubt those women would actually start pursuing foreign men. A lot more need to change media and stigma wise for that to happen.

Also, like someone else mentioned, the guy looks more white spanish then ethnic spanish.
 

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The media does shape what is attractive. Look at Jeremy Meeks, dude is hideous
 

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To be fair... He looks more like the white Castilian Latino that the Mexican or PR Latino....
The guy's name is "Hassan Jameel", so I'm pretty that he's neither Castilian, Mexican, PR or any other typo of Latino, lol. Apparently, he's a son of some Saudi billionaire. This goes to show that Americans are really fvcking clueless when it comes to ethnicities. If you are Indian and you think that being Indian is holding you back, change your name to Ramon Fernadez and practice talking like Tony Montana. 99% of Americans wouldn't be able to tell the diffference. It also goes to show that if you have enough money, your ethnicity doesn't matter that much anyway.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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