Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need help for my little sister

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Where/how can she meet a high value guy that´s worth it?

Some info on her: She´s 19, blond hair, beautiful eyes, charismatic, social and outgoing. (Almost) Everyone loves her. She´s currently studying a bachelors in Marketing and I´m trying to convince her to continue her studies with a masters once she´s done.

She´s never had a boyfriend before, but not for lack of willing candidates. For the last 4 years, she had a crush on a guy she met when she entered high school. They became best friends (he frienzoned her). I have my suspicions that the guy is actually closet gay but whatever. She´s over the crush now and ready to move on.

She has a lot of friends and goes out a lot but, she hardly ever meets new people. So there´s my question: Where/how can she meet a high value guy that´s worth it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sorry, I have six plates right now, maybe if I knew if she was marriage material.:D
 

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Withhold sex. If your sister is as high value as you say she is. She'll have no problems keeping a good man without her vagina.

Just note she'll lose a few good ones along the way but I guess that beats being pumped and dumped by some charismastic dude.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You would do well to enlighten her as to the ways of the game and those of a desirable woman. It will serve her well in the long term.
 

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Sorry, I have six plates right now, maybe if I knew if she was marriage material.:D
She has some good qualifications:

She´s 19
She´s never had a boyfriend before
The only thing is you need to get rid of the orbiter:

For the last 4 years, she had a crush on a guy she met when she entered high school. They became best friends (he frienzoned her)
It shouldn't be too difficult because he's never shoved his c0ck inside her. Once you show her your magic wand, she'll be all yours.
 

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Pictures oryou trolling
 

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What's your definition of high value? And what's hers? It varies depending on the person you know.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't you have anybody in your social circle that would qualify ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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-Future Business Leaders of America

-Volunteering at a teaching hospital

-Playing golf (early morning tee times)

-Jaycees

-Charity events

Those are all great places to meet great men.
 

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lol 19 year old hot ass female with glow does not need your advice. guaranteed shes been c0ck riding for years but plays the innocent naive sister card for you
 

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Where/how can she meet a high value guy that´s worth it?

Some info on her: She´s 19, blond hair, beautiful eyes, charismatic, social and outgoing. (Almost) Everyone loves her. She´s currently studying a bachelors in Marketing and I´m trying to convince her to continue her studies with a masters once she´s done.

She´s never had a boyfriend before, but not for lack of willing candidates. For the last 4 years, she had a crush on a guy she met when she entered high school. They became best friends (he frienzoned her). I have my suspicions that the guy is actually closet gay but whatever. She´s over the crush now and ready to move on.

She has a lot of friends and goes out a lot but, she hardly ever meets new people. So there´s my question: Where/how can she meet a high value guy that´s worth it?
Tell her do nothing but be herself. If she is what you describe she will get plenty of suitors.
 
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Where/how can she meet a high value guy that´s worth it?

Some info on her: She´s 19, blond hair, beautiful eyes, charismatic, social and outgoing. (Almost) Everyone loves her. She´s currently studying a bachelors in Marketing and I´m trying to convince her to continue her studies with a masters once she´s done.

She´s never had a boyfriend before, but not for lack of willing candidates. For the last 4 years, she had a crush on a guy she met when she entered high school. They became best friends (he frienzoned her). I have my suspicions that the guy is actually closet gay but whatever. She´s over the crush now and ready to move on.

She has a lot of friends and goes out a lot but, she hardly ever meets new people. So there´s my question: Where/how can she meet a high value guy that´s worth it?
Is she looking to you to help her find someone, or is this something you have taken upon yourself to do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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