"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Random girl just POPS into my head for seemingly no reason

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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No it's not oneitis. I don't talk to her, meet with her, have any mutual friends with her, or have anything to do with her. Yeah she's actually pretty damn hot, but she was one of the trainers I had for a period of 7 weeks so I'm not gonna make move. Thing is, it was months ago and honestly I didn't even think about her at all while doing the program. I still never even thought about her until recently like a few weeks ago. I'm not in love or infatuated with her (well I would bang, by so would all of you, women included :p) and it sure as hell isn't oneitis either, don't even go there. But like I'll be doing something random like on the computer or watching a video or driving or messaging someone, whatever. And then out of nowhere she'll pop into my mind even if I am extremely focused on the task I'm doing and it'd be kinda hard to get her out for a while, but then suddenly I'd just stop thinking about her. Then the next day the same thing happens. Kinda annoying, but I guess it's also pretty cool because it's never really happened before. Hoping some of you could shed some light on this? One thing that was worth noting was that she had very strong body language, and I noticed how it was in such a way as to subconsciously draw attention to her. I was only able to notice because I'm very aware of body language and why I feel certain ways;though as to why I think about her at random, I'm not quite sure. I honestly think it may have something to do with her body language. But why several months later do I think about her whereas before I never gave a crap?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No it's not oneitis. I don't talk to her, meet with her, have any mutual friends with her, or have anything to do with her. Yeah she's actually pretty damn hot, but she was one of the trainers I had for a period of 7 weeks so I'm not gonna make move. Thing is, it was months ago and honestly I didn't even think about her at all while doing the program. I still never even thought about her until recently like a few weeks ago. I'm not in love or infatuated with her (well I would bang, by so would all of you, women included :p) and it sure as hell isn't oneitis either, don't even go there. But like I'll be doing something random like on the computer or watching a video or driving or messaging someone, whatever. And then out of nowhere she'll pop into my mind even if I am extremely focused on the task I'm doing and it'd be kinda hard to get her out for a while, but then suddenly I'd just stop thinking about her. Then the next day the same thing happens. Kinda annoying, but I guess it's also pretty cool because it's never really happened before. Hoping some of you could shed some light on this? One thing that was worth noting was that she had very strong body language, and I noticed how it was in such a way as to subconsciously draw attention to her. I was only able to notice because I'm very aware of body language and why I feel certain ways;though as to why I think about her at random, I'm not quite sure. I honestly think it may have something to do with her body language. But why several months later do I think about her whereas before I never gave a crap?
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It's probably related to her birthday being some multiple of 3 months away, and/or your own. For example, it's the midpoint of your birthdays, etc.
 

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It's probably related to her birthday being some multiple of 3 months away, and/or your own. For example, it's the midpoint of your birthdays, etc.

are you joking
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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