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No it's not oneitis. I don't talk to her, meet with her, have any mutual friends with her, or have anything to do with her. Yeah she's actually pretty damn hot, but she was one of the trainers I had for a period of 7 weeks so I'm not gonna make move. Thing is, it was months ago and honestly I didn't even think about her at all while doing the program. I still never even thought about her until recently like a few weeks ago. I'm not in love or infatuated with her (well I would bang, by so would all of you, women included :p) and it sure as hell isn't oneitis either, don't even go there. But like I'll be doing something random like on the computer or watching a video or driving or messaging someone, whatever. And then out of nowhere she'll pop into my mind even if I am extremely focused on the task I'm doing and it'd be kinda hard to get her out for a while, but then suddenly I'd just stop thinking about her. Then the next day the same thing happens. Kinda annoying, but I guess it's also pretty cool because it's never really happened before. Hoping some of you could shed some light on this? One thing that was worth noting was that she had very strong body language, and I noticed how it was in such a way as to subconsciously draw attention to her. I was only able to notice because I'm very aware of body language and why I feel certain ways;though as to why I think about her at random, I'm not quite sure. I honestly think it may have something to do with her body language. But why several months later do I think about her whereas before I never gave a crap?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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No it's not oneitis. I don't talk to her, meet with her, have any mutual friends with her, or have anything to do with her. Yeah she's actually pretty damn hot, but she was one of the trainers I had for a period of 7 weeks so I'm not gonna make move. Thing is, it was months ago and honestly I didn't even think about her at all while doing the program. I still never even thought about her until recently like a few weeks ago. I'm not in love or infatuated with her (well I would bang, by so would all of you, women included :p) and it sure as hell isn't oneitis either, don't even go there. But like I'll be doing something random like on the computer or watching a video or driving or messaging someone, whatever. And then out of nowhere she'll pop into my mind even if I am extremely focused on the task I'm doing and it'd be kinda hard to get her out for a while, but then suddenly I'd just stop thinking about her. Then the next day the same thing happens. Kinda annoying, but I guess it's also pretty cool because it's never really happened before. Hoping some of you could shed some light on this? One thing that was worth noting was that she had very strong body language, and I noticed how it was in such a way as to subconsciously draw attention to her. I was only able to notice because I'm very aware of body language and why I feel certain ways;though as to why I think about her at random, I'm not quite sure. I honestly think it may have something to do with her body language. But why several months later do I think about her whereas before I never gave a crap?
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It's probably related to her birthday being some multiple of 3 months away, and/or your own. For example, it's the midpoint of your birthdays, etc.
 

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It's probably related to her birthday being some multiple of 3 months away, and/or your own. For example, it's the midpoint of your birthdays, etc.

are you joking
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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