"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Random girl just POPS into my head for seemingly no reason

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No it's not oneitis. I don't talk to her, meet with her, have any mutual friends with her, or have anything to do with her. Yeah she's actually pretty damn hot, but she was one of the trainers I had for a period of 7 weeks so I'm not gonna make move. Thing is, it was months ago and honestly I didn't even think about her at all while doing the program. I still never even thought about her until recently like a few weeks ago. I'm not in love or infatuated with her (well I would bang, by so would all of you, women included :p) and it sure as hell isn't oneitis either, don't even go there. But like I'll be doing something random like on the computer or watching a video or driving or messaging someone, whatever. And then out of nowhere she'll pop into my mind even if I am extremely focused on the task I'm doing and it'd be kinda hard to get her out for a while, but then suddenly I'd just stop thinking about her. Then the next day the same thing happens. Kinda annoying, but I guess it's also pretty cool because it's never really happened before. Hoping some of you could shed some light on this? One thing that was worth noting was that she had very strong body language, and I noticed how it was in such a way as to subconsciously draw attention to her. I was only able to notice because I'm very aware of body language and why I feel certain ways;though as to why I think about her at random, I'm not quite sure. I honestly think it may have something to do with her body language. But why several months later do I think about her whereas before I never gave a crap?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No it's not oneitis. I don't talk to her, meet with her, have any mutual friends with her, or have anything to do with her. Yeah she's actually pretty damn hot, but she was one of the trainers I had for a period of 7 weeks so I'm not gonna make move. Thing is, it was months ago and honestly I didn't even think about her at all while doing the program. I still never even thought about her until recently like a few weeks ago. I'm not in love or infatuated with her (well I would bang, by so would all of you, women included :p) and it sure as hell isn't oneitis either, don't even go there. But like I'll be doing something random like on the computer or watching a video or driving or messaging someone, whatever. And then out of nowhere she'll pop into my mind even if I am extremely focused on the task I'm doing and it'd be kinda hard to get her out for a while, but then suddenly I'd just stop thinking about her. Then the next day the same thing happens. Kinda annoying, but I guess it's also pretty cool because it's never really happened before. Hoping some of you could shed some light on this? One thing that was worth noting was that she had very strong body language, and I noticed how it was in such a way as to subconsciously draw attention to her. I was only able to notice because I'm very aware of body language and why I feel certain ways;though as to why I think about her at random, I'm not quite sure. I honestly think it may have something to do with her body language. But why several months later do I think about her whereas before I never gave a crap?
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It's probably related to her birthday being some multiple of 3 months away, and/or your own. For example, it's the midpoint of your birthdays, etc.
 

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It's probably related to her birthday being some multiple of 3 months away, and/or your own. For example, it's the midpoint of your birthdays, etc.

are you joking
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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