"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How important is it? Does she have to come in order to make sure you'll see her again? Or have you guys been able to recover after a not so great first time?

Girl from this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/girl-lying-about-her-age.241138/

Was over at her place a couple of days ago. She wanted to smoke some weed so we did. I got too high and couldn't focus, so my d*** wouldn't get hard. I said I was too high and we should stop. We hung out for a couple of hours after that. I had to leave to take care of some errands. She walked me to the door and kissed and hugged me goodbye.

She used to blow up my phone every day, and now she's gone distant.

Do I ditch this one or is it salvageable?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mission completed, move on. If she wants more, she'll let you know.
 
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Ditch it. Women don't usually give second chances after a bad experience.
 
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You did your work... nothing you can add, move on to the next
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't drink or do drugs before a first lay... fake it if you have too.

Always be in control and dominate her in the sack... Be the best she has ever had and they always will be back for more. Later on in a relationship a whiskey **** is forgivable but not in the beginning.

I hope it is a lesson learned.
 
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Point taken. I hit her her up and asked if everything was ok (I know I know, p*ssy move, I know better) and she said "I've been really busy I'll hit you up when I'm not so busy".

Already nexted her in my mind.
 
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Dingo said:
Don't drink or do drugs before a first lay... fake it if you have too.

Always be in control and dominate her in the sack... Be the best she has ever had and they always will be back for more. Later on in a relationship a whiskey **** is forgivable but not in the beginning.

I hope it is a lesson learned.
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I disagree on the booze,you just gotta know what your doing,they don't call it panty remover for nothing,agree on domination fvck her like its your last fvck and eat pvzzy like the devil himself.
 
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My penis actually gets MORE hard when I smoke weed lol. I also get more horny.

Either there is something wrong with you or there is something wrong with me.
 
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Shift said:
Point taken. I hit her her up and asked if everything was ok (I know I know, p*ssy move, I know better) and she said "I've been really busy I'll hit you up when I'm not so busy".

Already nexted her in my mind.
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Lol. Done and dusted.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Red Legg said:
I disagree on the booze,you just gotta know what your doing,they don't call it panty remover for nothing,agree on domination fvck her like its your last fvck and eat pvzzy like the devil himself.
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She can drink.... You just drink less... be under control.

Urbanyst said:
My penis actually gets MORE hard when I smoke weed lol. I also get more horny.

Either there is something wrong with you or there is something wrong with me.
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Some weed yes...

The point is you only get one chance at making a good impression. Don't blow it.
 
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Dingo said:
Some weed yes...

The point is you only get one chance at making a good impression. Don't blow it.
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Meh. Lots of guys suck in bed and still have girlfriends and wives.

Women care about the overall VALUE you offer much more than your bedroom skills. The slutty ones who are all about sex will likely branch swing down the road anyway. No loss.
 
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