"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How important is it? Does she have to come in order to make sure you'll see her again? Or have you guys been able to recover after a not so great first time?

Girl from this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/girl-lying-about-her-age.241138/

Was over at her place a couple of days ago. She wanted to smoke some weed so we did. I got too high and couldn't focus, so my d*** wouldn't get hard. I said I was too high and we should stop. We hung out for a couple of hours after that. I had to leave to take care of some errands. She walked me to the door and kissed and hugged me goodbye.

She used to blow up my phone every day, and now she's gone distant.

Do I ditch this one or is it salvageable?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Mission completed, move on. If she wants more, she'll let you know.
 
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Ditch it. Women don't usually give second chances after a bad experience.
 
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You did your work... nothing you can add, move on to the next
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't drink or do drugs before a first lay... fake it if you have too.

Always be in control and dominate her in the sack... Be the best she has ever had and they always will be back for more. Later on in a relationship a whiskey **** is forgivable but not in the beginning.

I hope it is a lesson learned.
 
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Point taken. I hit her her up and asked if everything was ok (I know I know, p*ssy move, I know better) and she said "I've been really busy I'll hit you up when I'm not so busy".

Already nexted her in my mind.
 
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Dingo said:
Don't drink or do drugs before a first lay... fake it if you have too.

Always be in control and dominate her in the sack... Be the best she has ever had and they always will be back for more. Later on in a relationship a whiskey **** is forgivable but not in the beginning.

I hope it is a lesson learned.
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I disagree on the booze,you just gotta know what your doing,they don't call it panty remover for nothing,agree on domination fvck her like its your last fvck and eat pvzzy like the devil himself.
 
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My penis actually gets MORE hard when I smoke weed lol. I also get more horny.

Either there is something wrong with you or there is something wrong with me.
 
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Shift said:
Point taken. I hit her her up and asked if everything was ok (I know I know, p*ssy move, I know better) and she said "I've been really busy I'll hit you up when I'm not so busy".

Already nexted her in my mind.
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Lol. Done and dusted.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Red Legg said:
I disagree on the booze,you just gotta know what your doing,they don't call it panty remover for nothing,agree on domination fvck her like its your last fvck and eat pvzzy like the devil himself.
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She can drink.... You just drink less... be under control.

Urbanyst said:
My penis actually gets MORE hard when I smoke weed lol. I also get more horny.

Either there is something wrong with you or there is something wrong with me.
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Some weed yes...

The point is you only get one chance at making a good impression. Don't blow it.
 
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Dingo said:
Some weed yes...

The point is you only get one chance at making a good impression. Don't blow it.
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Meh. Lots of guys suck in bed and still have girlfriends and wives.

Women care about the overall VALUE you offer much more than your bedroom skills. The slutty ones who are all about sex will likely branch swing down the road anyway. No loss.
 
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