“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Single woman publicly shames OLD dating prospect

ThisNThat

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I have to admit, this guy wrote up the most polite
proposition to this woman, as opposed to, "I want to b*ng you*

Hi my name is ... I liked
your profile write-up and
you're quite attractive, too.

I know I'm considerably younger
than yourself, but would you be
up for some casual fun?

I'm sure we can have fun
as long as we respect each other
and honest.
Shall I'll start by taking you out
for drinks?


She posted a screen shot of this dialogue and her
response to him was to basically

"F-off! How dare you be
disrespectful
...where in MY profile did I say I want
"casual fun"?!! Learn to read profiles!!


Believe it or not, some of the friends (not all)
thought there was no harm in his delivery since
it wasn't "Let's bang" and thought it to be so polite
that it was no big deal and faulted her for making a
stink about it, but....she has a routine habit of
posting her dating woes on Facebook...which probably
can get irritating to her friends. lol

Personally,I saw no harm in how he delivered it. But
she's also a bar fly trying to pick up men there, too. So
I don't feel sorry for her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bible_Belt

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He would have done better by just saying hello.

Hi. Cute pic!

is all I use as a first message. They know you want to fvck. You don't have to say so. Doing so keeps her from pretending that you are interested in her personality.
 

MatureDJ

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Is there a link to this somewhere? There is absolutely no context here.
 

Wilko

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He would have done better by just saying hello.

Hi. Cute pic!

is all I use as a first message. They know you want to fvck. You don't have to say so. Doing so keeps her from pretending that you are interested in her personality.
On point BB.

Just like we know they're all interested in our resources and earning potential. But there's nothing more off-putting than a woman who comes at that subject directly.

BTW - you still pulling from FetLife? Is it just something for major metro areas?
 

Bible_Belt

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I'm not in a city, and got decent action off Fetlife, although I did run through everyone locally after a while. I have a new gf now, whom I met on craigslist, so I have not been very active on fetlife.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SadoMasochrist

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I'm not in a city, and got decent action off Fetlife, although I did run through everyone locally after a while. I have a new gf now, whom I met on craigslist, so I have not been very active on fetlife.
What's the fet life game outside of **** shots and munches?
 
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