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article: Stealthing: Inside the world of men who remove condoms during sex without consent

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https://www.yahoo.com/beauty/stealthing-inside-world-men-remove-100700967.html
One man, for example, has published a “comprehensive guide” to committing the act:

He reveals how his first experience of stealthing gave him a rush “more intense than I can describe” and how he’s over time developed different techniques
I think this rush that men get is simply the emotion of reproducing; this is why the gold standard in male sexuality is ejaculating inside a fertile woman's vagiina.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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It must be something deep rooted in us because man, oh man, I just cannot tell you how good it feels to know you can *** inside a ***** and to just *** inside of it.
 

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Why bother even wearing one? 90% of chicks don't give a fvck if you do or not...and there is no way I would be cvmming inside some chick. Far too much self control for that, she can take a facial blast...
 

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I saw this article. I cant imagine why any man would take the chance on getting someone pregnant OR contracting a disease. I agree, feels way better without the condom but condoms were the agreement. Females are going to push that towards sexual assault if it happens to them. I would feel violated if this was done to me.
 
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I think this has a lot of feminist huffing and puffing behind it. I can't believe this is as common as the article makes it sound. The referenced study was published in Columbia Journal of Gender and Law, Vol. 32, No. 2, 2017

Keywords: Feminism, Gender Violence, Sexual Violence, Feminist Law, Gender, Sex Equality

Sounds more like a rabid feminist attorney looking for a crime than a real thing. If you do a google search on "stealing" all the result are within the last couple of days, meaning this could all be some feminist attorneys fantasy.

Even the wikipedia page on stealthing is only a couple of sentences.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm actually going to agree with @sazc. I'd be ****ing pissed if a girl did something like this - pin-holing a condom, for instance.
 

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Out of the 250 + women I have fvcked in my 27 year DJ career I can count on ONE hand the number of women who requested I use a rubber.
 
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Out of the 250 + women I have fvcked in my 27 year DJ career I can count on ONE hand the number of women who requested I use a rubber.
How many VD's have you caught? And how many times.

I've only banged 42 women and caught chlamidya twice, crabs once.
 

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Just more feminist noise.

"Removing a condom during sex - known as stealthing - transforms a consensual act into a non-consensual one."

But let me guess, a woman putting a hole in a condom or lying about being on birth control doesn't register on their radar as a non-consensual act.

This is just another attempt to further widen, disillusion and distort their already vague definitions of "sexual assault and rape".
 

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How many VD's have you caught? And how many times.

I've only banged 42 women and caught chlamidya twice, crabs once.
I have NEVER had an STD,not even a mild infection of any kind.I also have never made a women pregnant,although many have lied about being pregnant.
 

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Just more feminist noise.

"Removing a condom during sex - known as stealthing - transforms a consensual act into a non-consensual one."

But let me guess, a woman putting a hole in a condom or lying about being on birth control doesn't register on their radar as a non-consensual act.

This is just another attempt to further widen, disillusion and distort their already vague definitions of "sexual assault and rape".
Those feminist a$$holes want to simply control men. The are actually posturing that penetrative sex of any kind is the same as rape...
 

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Out of the 250 + women I have fvcked in my 27 year DJ career I can count on ONE hand the number of women who requested I use a rubber.
I've had at least 50 and there was only ONE that requested a condom. My guess is she had caught something from a guy in her past and that was the only reason she insisted on using one.

I've used condoms with probably less than 20% of the time and never caught anything.
 

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I won't come inside a girl even if she begs me to. I do try to hit them in the face when I pull out though, Peter North style.
 

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I won't come inside a girl even if she begs me to. I do try to hit them in the face when I pull out though, Peter North style.
Peter North is arguably the biggest name is classic p0rno not named John Holmes or Ron Jeremy.
 

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I saw this article. I cant imagine why any man would take the chance on getting someone pregnant OR contracting a disease. I agree, feels way better without the condom but condoms were the agreement. Females are going to push that towards sexual assault if it happens to them. I would feel violated if this was done to me.
Please explain how this is any different from having sex with a woman who claims to be on birth control when she isn't.

If stealthing is sexual assault (which no doubt it will become) then there is no logical argument to make that lying about birth control shouldn't be considered as sexual assault too.
 

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This stuff would never stand up in court. Its all he said/she said. A guy could say the condom slipped off. Shame on her for not noticing. lol.
 

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Please explain how this is any different from having sex with a woman who claims to be on birth control when she isn't.

If stealthing is sexual assault (which no doubt it will become) then there is no logical argument to make that lying about birth control shouldn't be considered as sexual assault too.
It appears that you have grossly misunderstood my statement (again) or possibly assigned opinions to me that are born of your own personal baggage.

Regardless, I'm not quite sure why you think you command a frame where you can demand that I explain anything to you?

You want the respect of authentic engagement, and communication (which I encourage, and am fine with), you need to begin with giving the same respect.

Have a great day.
 

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This stuff would never stand up in court. Its all he said/she said. A guy could say the condom slipped off. Shame on her for not noticing. lol.
Which has happened to me before. Side bar - what do you say, HOW do you say it, when the condom keeps slipping off b/c the condom is to big? I genuinely want to know how to suggest he/we investigate a different brand without hurting an ego.... This is in my past but he played it as if he had no clue why, and I didnt know how to say anything (im always worried about the ego)
 

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It appears that you have grossly misunderstood my statement (again) or possibly assigned opinions to me that are born of your own personal baggage.

Regardless, I'm not quite sure why you think you command a frame where you can demand that I explain anything to you?

You want the respect of authentic engagement, and communication (which I encourage, and am fine with), you need to begin with giving the same respect.

Have a great day.
So in other words you're a hypocrite. Good to know.
 

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So in other words you're a hypocrite. Good to know.
I'm a hypocrite because I support females lying to men about being in birth control so they can get pregnant?

I've NEVER stated anything remotely like that. Again, must be your personal baggage.

We're not communicating well and I'm not looking for this kind of interaction. I'm sure you will understand if I ignore you moving forward.

Have a great day :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

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Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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