"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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fb friend (girl) comments "you should bang her" on a picture of me and another girl

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TL;DR: will my dumbazz facebook friend making stupid comments on facebook mess up my chances of getting laid? lol.

simple story, last night I went to a gala that was being thrown as a charity fundraiser or something, it was themed to look like a prom, and unlike my prom (which was lit af) the gala was kind of lame but whatever I got some pictures with cute girls for the gram (and facebook) so it still worked out for me.

on one of the pictures of me and a girl with a fancy dress, my facebook friend (17 y/o indian chick) said something like "she's so pretty you've gotta bang her", I said something like "she'll see what I say, so no comment :p" (I later edited it to say "no comment lol"), my brother thinks that if the girl in the picture sees that comment and thinks that I was talking about banging her publically on facebook my chances would be ruined, whereas I think that since I personally didn't say anything she'll just think my friend is a weirdo

what do you guys think?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think your FB wants a threesome.
 
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Well, in that case, I would delete her comment and go bang her cause that is what she's subtly suggesting.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why would a girl suggest you bang another girl? Frankly, I never heard of that being said in FB comments ever before. Like, go for it, dude, if you like the commenter. She is publicly talking about sex WITH you on a FB post. Girls do not usually do that ****. This is worth at least investigating and imo, you could easily get laid with the commenter.
 
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She was jealous so she tried to make you look silly by saying something stupid. You shouldn't have commented. It was pointless. Had you ignored it you would have been fine. The girl who comments looks stupid and if the girl in the pic had said anything about it all you would've had to do was say "She's Jealous."

You're original comment was cringey, its good that you edited it but people can see when you have edited a comment. You made this deeper than it needed to be. Why would you comment "no comment?"

Anyway when the girlnin the picture inevitability brings it up don't make much of it and say "I don't know why she would comment at." Let it blow over after that, don' talk about it. If her interest is reasonable you'll be fine. If not snip snip.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In the amount of time OP agonized and overanalyzed this social media soap opera drama bull$hit, he could have used the same amount of energy to game and likely bang the commenter.
 
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BetterCallSaul said:
In the amount of time OP agonized and overanalyzed this social media soap opera drama bull$hit, he could have used the same amount of energy to game and likely bang the commenter.
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I was amused by the comment actually, it's only when my brother texted me that reality set in and I was like oh ****.
 
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