"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why are all the Legends banned from this site?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Today:

One year earlier ...
Correction. I sent the Moderators the PMs you were sending me because you were going the fvck off, talking about how you were going to sue me and sue Sosuave as well, because me "calling you out" in threads was costing you clients.

You want to talk about "bans", usually when someone threatens to sue the forum, that usually ends in an automatic ban. So I don't even know how you are still here, especially considering there's no doubt that you are both Guru and Legend. You alternate between two different accounts without acknowledging that you are the same person upfront. That's troll behavior and fraudulent behavior.
 

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A lot of language for a reporter who, once again, shows his words are without merit.
 

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A lot of language for a reporter who, once again, shows his words are without merit.
What are you talking about?

For anybody who wants to reference, the situation was actually in September 2015.

- I made the following post referencing what (I still believe to be true) various statements about Guru/Legend:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/thread...accurate-depiction.229273/page-3#post-2287636

- He then follows up with this public request to ban me because he's going to "sue me" (a lawsuit that never got filed BTW) and then he proceeds to enter my PM box with all sorts of non-sense, that's why I forwarded his PMs to the Moderators: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/thread...accurate-depiction.229273/page-3#post-2287659
 

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Let me assist:

Guru1000 said:
Guru intends to ...
in·tend
(ĭn-tĕnd′)
v. in·tend·ed, in·tend·ing, in·tends
v.tr.
1. To have in mind;


I may have had an assertion in mind, but never stated I would.

However, you state:

Tenacity said:
I've never reported anybody.
But you did.
Tenacity said:
And sir this is why you have been reported
As stated, your words have zero merit.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I hate to be the bearer of bad news but you can't sue for defamation of character to an anonymous alias.

I'll be back in 1 hour. You guys do need to take your argument offline or I'll be closing this thread.
 

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in·tend
(ĭn-tĕnd′)
v. in·tend·ed, in·tend·ing, in·tends
v.tr.
1. To have in mind;


I may have had an assertion in mind, but never stated I would.
Damn you are a fvcking liar dude.

Do I have to post the damn PMs with you stating you and your "attorney friend" sue people for fun? I forwarded them all to Moderators too, so they know how crazy you are.

I'm done talking to you.
 

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I hate to be the bearer of bad news but you can't sue for defamation of character to an anonymous alias.

I'll be back in 1 hour. You guys do need to take your argument offline or I'll be closing this thread.
No, let's keep the thread open, I'm removing myself from the discussion with him.
 

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Lefty, you could effect a SLAPP upon a prima facie showing of a guise of anonymity with actual damages, but that's a discussion for another thread. Hardly an argument here, as that would require a worthy adversary. I'm just pointing out a discrepancy between Tenacity's claim and fact.
 

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Dude, the man's original thread post (before anybody replies) includes the statement of "you're a beta fag.got if you disagree with my theories." That right there is an insult. How the hell is it that you don't understand this?



No this has to be a joke.

- I've never reported anybody.

- I don't make threads turn into discussions about me, I state my opinions and when people can't refute the arguments I'm making, they throw out personal attacks.

- If you feel as though Tenacity ought to be banned, then gather up a bunch of other people who feel the same way and bring the "class action" suit to the Moderators. There's nothing stopping you from doing that. If I'm banned so be it. I don't get paid to post here, I will just go post on another forum. Same thing happened when they banned me off City Data, I came to Sosuave. Fvck it.

But I'm getting tired of you guys acting like fvcking women.

You want to ban this guy, ban that guy, because you disagree with him.

Tenacity hasn't done a fvcking thing to you BeTheChange. Nothing. I've spent countless HOURS trying to help you with various aspects of things you are going through financially. Yet every moment you get, you take the opportunity to try to SHYT on me. I'm getting fvcking tired of it.

This entire retarded situation is showing why masculinity is sooooo fvcked up today. We don't work together. We back-bite each other. We easily turn on each other. And we can't fvcking AGREE to DISAGREE without being DISAGREEABLE. Instead if we disagree, then we want the other guy banned.

Fvcking stupid and retarded.
LOL this is actually a perfect example.

Projection. Insults. Then reframing as the victim. Accusations of behaviour he and only he himself actually carries out (e.g. reporting posters)

Do I win the Tenacity bingo?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LOL this is actually a perfect example.

Projection. Insults. Then reframing as the victim. Accusations of behaviour he and only he himself actually carries out (e.g. reporting posters)

Do I win the Tenacity bingo?
Is that what you did when you beat your ex and lost your job because of it?
 

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LOL this is actually a perfect example.

Projection. Insults. Then reframing as the victim. Accusations of behaviour he and only he himself actually carries out (e.g. reporting posters)

Do I win the Tenacity bingo?
Okay whatever dude.
 

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A bad topic of a thread to start with. Wasn't too bad starting out, but it's ran it's course today. Closed.
 
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