That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What i thod about is i will actualy be busy high value man,considering that id have to manage my time like a mofo,and i will use my spare time to study or sleep.and belive me bro it will end it lmao,cause no holidays and i finish late night im talking like 3 am ish
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Soon i wont live with my family hopefully im moving out. I feel like a puzzay when i ask my parents for cash tbh
Im alredy having my fair share of women with 2 casual f buddys and some poetentials here and there,i just want my cactus wet,no lovey dovey things on mind atmI hate to say it but I would go for social life. My senior year in high school I got a job, 8 hour shift on Saturday night. I was so happy I was getting paid but missed out in all the parties and getting experience with girls. In the end I had maybe $3,000. I put in a stock recommended by Harvard edcauted grads and lost it all in 3 months. In the end I had nothing to show for it, got scammed by Ivy League educated individuals, and 0 girls.
Money comes and money goes. Your relationships and experience with girls, you can't get that when you are older. No one will care you have an extra $50,000 or $100,000 in your bank if you don't connect with people and have good relationships with women.
Brutal.
If you want said independence and more self sufficiency, then of course employment comes first.
Yeah i really dont want to get in the real world after graduation without knowing how it works
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Experience is the best teacher…
Exactly,i can read all the books about finance,but without practicing it,its just a waste of time.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Unfortunatly it is every night
Well then look at it this way. This job wont be forever.
I enjoy clubs that i cannot afford-expensive food,traveling. And i guess if my current plates give me attuide down the road ill straightout find a hookers number
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
