"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Me and my girlfriend started having sex since last month.We used Morning after pill just once that month.Her period was regular that month.We had sex this month,may be including ovulation day.We use condoms all the time.We always check the condom before and after use for any defect.There was no problem in condom.I found some white viscous discharge at the end of condom before ejaculation.I learnt that it is from girl.Now,this month,Her period is 4 days late.Should I be worried about pregnancy?I am scared to death now.She even has to encourage me to stay calm:3.So,guys,please give your opinions.Any will be helpful.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're not really on the right message board for this type of advice. It sounds like you're looking for someone to reassure you she isn't pregnant. If she is, deal with it then. I wouldn't worry about it now. I've had three girls tell me they were pregnant. Two were lying.
 
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XI AlphaMale IX said:
You're not really on the right message board for this type of advice. It sounds like you're looking for someone to reassure you she isn't pregnant. If she is, deal with it then. I wouldn't worry about it now. I've had three girls tell me they were pregnant. Two were lying.
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Where should I be asking,bro?
I am new to this site.
I just wanna hear some tips from experienced guys.
Thank you anyway
 
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Ease up man, periods can be late and I mean really extremely late. Depends on the girl. Just get her a test and be done with it. All that worrying can be solved in 5 minutes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've seen girls be late many times in my life. 4 days isn't enough time to be worried. A lot of times, if the girl is worried, she will be late.
 
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4 days isn't really that big deal. Go to the drug store and get one of the tests that she pees on, that will tell you everything you need to know
 
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Dear Morons of the Year: DO NOT USE MORNING AFTER PILL AS BIRTH CONTROL.

RU-486 (Mifepristone) is highly toxic and is supposed to be used when you got raped, not when you got laid.
 
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RU 486 is intended for use by anyone who wants to ensure that they will not get pregnant, after an accident (condom breaks, drunken night of debauchery, didnt pull out in time)

RU-486 is intended to terminate a pregnancy that is less than 7 weeks along. While it is not intended to be relied on as birth control, two people who know they had an accident can get RU 486 to ensure that there will be no pregnancy. RU 486 floods the female body with the hormone that makes the female body believe it is already pregnant. Since the body already believes it is pregnant, the fertilized egg will not be able to implant in the lining of the uterus.

RU 486 is an over the counter medication that you can walk into Target and purchase. As a female who has clinically terminated a pregnancy because of an honest ooops, it is MUCH better (psychologically, emotionally and cost wise) to take RU 486 if there is the possibility that pregnancy could occur.

Please fvck responsibly :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ease up man, periods can be late and I mean really extremely late. Depends on the girl. Just get her a test and be done with it. All that worrying can be solved in 5 minutes.
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She tested it multiple times.It is negative.But,no mense yet.What should we do?
 
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Atom Smasher said:
I've seen girls be late many times in my life. 4 days isn't enough time to be worried. A lot of times, if the girl is worried, she will be late.
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How long can stress delay period?She is having her finals and she has been having so many family problems.
 
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Do what you want as always .... If its negative well thats great. From personal witness, up to two weeks even.

Finals, family and also the thought that is is late drives itself to be late even more. A stress cycle LOL.
 
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I've seen an entire period (4 weeks) missed in my day.
 
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