Worst "advice" you've ever gotten from the Manosphere or other djs

[9Volt]

What is some of the worst advice you ever read or taken from the Manosphere, other djs or pua?

 

[KingBeef]

What is some of the worst advice you ever read or taken from the Manosphere, other djs or pua?

"Getting in shape or putting on some muscle definition has no universal benefit for men to increase attraction towards the opposite sex."

Heard this several years back. Biggest load of sh!t I've ever heard...

 

[9Volt]

"Getting in shape or putting on some muscle definition has no universal benefit for men to increase attraction towards the opposite sex."

Heard this several years back. Biggest load of sh!t I've ever heard...

Getting in top shape most definitely helps. Looking good at the beach and lying next to her she's not going to complain.

getting in shape is just one of the best tips in attracting chicks not the only one.

worst advice I've heard off top is spinning plates. it's as if you have nothing better to do with your life than juggle women or attempt to as if you need them as a security blankets because you can't be alone if you break up with some chick. for some dudes it's great. not my thing. I've got more important shyt to do let alone delude myself I don't put pvss on a pedestal while tripping over myself to get a harem.

 

[Mike32ct]

"Getting in shape or putting on some muscle definition has no universal benefit for men to increase attraction towards the opposite sex."

Heard this several years back. Biggest load of sh!t I've ever heard...

Agree 100 percent. More looks denial.

It is also some clever word-smithing as well. It has no "universal" benefit. In other words, it doesn't work on 100 percent of women, which is technically true.

 

[9Volt]

Agree 100 percent. More looks denial.

It is also some clever word-smithing as well. It has no "universal" benefit. In other words, it doesn't work on 100 percent of women, which is technically true.

nothing has a 100% "universal benefit" not even looks because looks are subjective. You may have a perfect face and get a lot more chicks than an ugly dude but you ain't getting them all.

 

[RangerMIke]

Yep looks don't matter... what a crock. The only thing you really need to understand about chicks and what they are attracted to is "What will her friends think if she is with you."

 

[Mike32ct]

I also think some pickup theories on women's intuition are over blown. One guru claimed that women are "ten times as good at reading body language as men."

I'm not aware of any solid basis for that statement. If that were true, all "interviews" (i.e. interrogations) would be performed by female officers lol.

 

[9Volt]

spam approaching. as if these dudes in pua don't act like weirdos enough. Run around like a thirst bucket doing scripted routines, fail 98% of the time, and then try to act even more weird for attention while telling yourself: "I am teh prize". Ok corky.

Shyt is comedy.

 

[Mike32ct]

spam approaching. as if these dudes in pua don't act like weirdos enough. Run around like a thirst bucket doing scripted routines, fail 98% of the time, and then try to act even more weird for attention while telling yourself: "I am teh prize". Ok corky.

Shyt is comedy.

Agreed. Spam approaching neglects the fact that you can easily "over sarge" a venue. Cold approaching everybody at the venue doesn't make you look "social" or "high value." It makes you look tryhard at best or creepy at worst.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

What is some of the worst advice you ever read or taken from the Manosphere, other djs or pua?

I just posted a thread on it...
"Go ghost" once you set up the date until the day of the date. Over the last 3 months since I stopped doing it I have had ZERO flakes. ZERO. ZERO. ZERO.

Stop "going ghost", just be a normal, interesting cool dude and contact them here and there up until and even ON the day you are meeting...they will want to meet you even more than they did initially...they won't think you are lame...they won't "find out to much"...they will think you are actually interested in them and that you want to meet them...what a horrible idea, right??

 

[Mike32ct]

"Never give a direct answer to any question."

Being playfully evasive gets old fast.

"Just be c&f"

It doesn't work on everybody. Some people actually find ballbusting offensive. Even those that like it will tire of it after not too long.

 

[9Volt]

"Never give a direct answer to any question."

Being playfully evasive gets old fast.

"Just be c&f"

It doesn't work on everybody. Some people actually find ballbusting offensive. Even those that like it will tire of it after not too long.

The "c0ckey funny" bs is "advice" from pandering shut-ins that read that chicks love funny guys so they think they have to be a continuous "life of the party" and every chick will love their funny bad boy act.

problem is when chicks say they want a guy that makes them laugh they mean a guy that gives them butterflies and laugh at almost anything he says even though it might not be funny at all. It's a coded way of saying they want a guy they are attracted to that makes them smile and tingle downstairs. Not some stand up comedian.

when a chick is attracted to you you'll get a clue by when you say things that she laughs at and touches you when you know what you said wasn't even trying to be funny.

 

[Tenacity]

What is some of the worst advice you ever read or taken from the Manosphere, other djs or pua?

- Everything that happens with your relations with women is YOUR FAULT, so if it goes South that means you either you didn't game her right, wasn't masculine enough, didn't use the right technique, your dyck wasn't 10 inches, etc. It's NEVER the woman's fault.

- Looks and Finances don't matter, only Inner Game does.

- Don't call or text for a WEEK after you get her number. Yeah sure, in the real world the bytch will forget who you were, but this is the Manosphere! This isn't the real world lol!

 

[9Volt]

- Everything that happens with your relations with women is YOUR FAULT, so if it goes South that means you either you didn't game her right, wasn't masculine enough, didn't use the right technique, your dyck wasn't 10 inches, etc. It's NEVER the woman's fault.

- Looks and Finances don't matter, only Inner Game does.

- Don't call or text for a WEEK after you get her number. Yeah sure, in the real world the bytch will forget who you were, but this is the Manosphere! This isn't the real world lol!

95% of the Manosphere are miserable crabs in a bucket. They pat each other on the back with one hand and stab each other in the back with toxic "advice" because misery loves company.

 

[devilkingx2]

- Everything that happens with your relations with women is YOUR FAULT, so if it goes South that means you either you didn't game her right, wasn't masculine enough, didn't use the right technique, your dyck wasn't 10 inches, etc. It's NEVER the woman's fault.

I think the point of that is that the only variable you had control over is the things you did, it's obviously not always your fault but there was always something you could've done to avoid that scenario (even if it's something like nexting that girl after the second date instead of after a year of dating)

- Looks and Finances don't matter, only Inner Game does.

someone who tells you looks don't matter at all is trying to sell you something, someone who tells you that looks aren't the be-all end-all of everything in the dating world however, is offering good advice (as in, if you're a hunchback you won't be dating a supermodel, but just because your name isn't tom brady doesn't mean you'll never ever date a model in your life, it'll just be more difficult.)

finances actually don't matter unless you're into gold diggers or something though. (within reason, homeless men don't do that well with women)

- Don't call or text for a WEEK after you get her number. Yeah sure, in the real world the bytch will forget who you were, but this is the Manosphere! This isn't the real world lol!

agreed.

I heard that was supposed to be just a thing you tell beginners and that the right amount of time is less than a week and more than immediately, you just gotta find the balance

 

[Infern0]

"Getting in shape or putting on some muscle definition has no universal benefit for men to increase attraction towards the opposite sex."

Heard this several years back. Biggest load of sh!t I've ever heard...

That wasnt my first pick but now that you mention it, yeah. The "being in great shape makes no difference, its all game" is the biggest pile of crap ive ever heard. Its something lazy out of shape guys say.

But my pick is guys who say to follow "the script" to the T. And "next" at any sign of infraction.

You have to be able to adapt and soften if needed or when appropriate. Too many guys preach being a "game robot" i did that at the start and while its better than being afc it cost me a bunch of times until i learned to be flexible.

"Spin plates" is usually bs advice too considered that its perscribed for EVERYTHING

Finally "go mgtow"

Just lol at that one

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

" All women are like that ".

Nope, not 'all' women are like that, whatever 'that' is. Any man who believes this has never had a woman who is besotted with him; the type of woman who he just knows would never leave him. Fcking black and white primitive hive speak.

 

[Bingo-Player]

" immediate hard nexting"

a little while after i first came here i was under the impression i needed to hard next every chick that gave me an answer i didn't like

this isnt true i have learnt women are very situational , just because she shows low interest now doesnt mean that will be the case in 1 , 2 ,3 months

ive has girls be low interest initally and then later down the line have done a complete 180 and are more than happy to ride my d1ck

 

[playa99]

I gotta agree with TMK on the 'All women are like that' advice.

'Go MGTOW' is absurd, it is generally a flippant reaction to being butthurt.

 

[Roober]

I bet we all go through the same progression...

1. complete AFC
2. heart broken
3. Find SS and learn the ways of the world
4. Stick to the rules, while you learn the ropes
5. Realize the rules are more of guidelines and dont work for everyone
6. Adapt the guidelines to your style
7. success and spin plates

I believe I am somewhere between 5 and 6. Some guys get stuck at 4. Different strokes for different folks, that is how this thing works!