How to test a girl's commitment level

[IBreatheSpears]

How do you test how in-love a girl is, or how committed to you she feels? I want to know if my gf is trying to make the relationship progress.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Isn't it something that you can just sense by how she acts around you?

 

[Trump]

How do you test how in-love a girl is, or how committed to you she feels? I want to know if my gf is trying to make the relationship progress.

Bro it's not your job to make your relationship progress. It's her job. Just keep having sex with her, let her figure out what it means.

Your job is to be the best person you can be for yourself and society.

 

[devilkingx2]

How do you test how in-love a girl is, or how committed to you she feels? I want to know if my gf is trying to make the relationship progress.

if she wants to move in or says I love you or talks about marriage/wanting a ring, hints at wanting more commitment, etc.

and i guess also by how she treats other guys. if she still talks to 3 of her exes she's not at all committed, if she asks for permission to speak to the pizza guy, she's very committed

 

[macallik]

How do you test how in-love a girl is, or how committed to you she feels? I want to know if my gf is trying to make the relationship progress.

'Testing' someone is reactive and usually something reserved for the insecure person in a relationship. You have to become better at gauging commitment based on her day-to-day interactions with you. Does she empathize with you? Does she make time for you? Do you have a good rapport? Etc.

Fundamentally, the fact that you are trying to test her instead of knowing whether the two of you are compatible is a red flag and you would probably be well-suited to read the DJ Bible some more for overall insights.

 

[bigneil]

Try this:

"Do you think it might be time for us to end the relationship?"

Her possible answers:

1) "No!!!!" means no
2) (anything else) means yes

 

[EyeBRollin]

Try this:

"Do you think it might be time for us to end the relationship?"

Her possible answers:

1) "No!!!!" means no
2) (anything else) means yes

Why are you discussing your relationship with women? The only time you bring up relationship concerns is when she brings it up.

 

[El Payaso]

Try this:

"Do you think it might be time for us to end the relationship?"

Her possible answers:

1) "No!!!!" means no
2) (anything else) means yes

As beta as it gets.

 

[bigneil]

As beta as it gets.

This is well known knowledge in the seduction community. I didn't write this. I'm not that good. El PassGasso on the other hand is obviously that bad.

Good luck in 2017 for you guys to get some pvssy finally.

 

[Glassguy]

Just pull back....a little. Not too much all of a sudden. Maybe for the next few days answer half of her calls and wait just a little longer than normal to respond to her texts. Don't overdue it and make it a complete shakeup.

If very committed she will sense it and be concerned and draw closer.

 

[Mr. Kalikoat]

Try this:

"Do you think it might be time for us to end the relationship?"

Her possible answers:

1) "No!!!!" means no
2) (anything else) means yes

As beta as it gets.

Yeah wtf, that seems like the dumbest idea ever, not to mention that "anything else" doesn't necessarily mean she wants to end it.

I bet most women would answer "wtf why do you even bring this up?" when you ask them "do you think it might be time for us to end the relationship?" and your value with her will drop INSTANTLY.

 

[devilkingx2]

Yeah wtf, that seems like the dumbest idea ever, not to mention that "anything else" doesn't necessarily mean she wants to end it.

I bet most women would answer "wtf why do you even bring this up?" when you ask them "do you think it might be time for us to end the relationship?" and your value with her will drop INSTANTLY.

i don't think his post was serious

 

[IBreatheSpears]

I just want to know because I'm curious. I'm confident she loves me and doesn't want to lose me. She cooks for me, gives me spontaneous *******s, bought me a cool christmas present, and waited outside my house in the cold when we had an argument and I stormed off.

 

[bigneil]

Yeah wtf, that seems like the dumbest idea ever, not to mention that "anything else" doesn't necessarily mean she wants to end it.

I bet most women would answer "wtf why do you even bring this up?" when you ask them "do you think it might be time for us to end the relationship?" and your value with her will drop INSTANTLY.

First, I didn't invent this method. Second, this is not a joke. A woman either wants to end it, or will do anything to avoid ending it. All you do is ask them and you know where you stand. But many of you need to get a second date before you learn what women are like in relationships.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Judge her by her actions and not by her words. If her actions are good, what more do you want? And if her actions are crappy, will her words really make a difference? Exactly. Her words are meaningless.

WHEN LOVE IS PRESENT, WORDS ARE UNNECESSARY.

WHEN WORDS ARE NECESSARY, LOVE ISN'T PRESENT.

This is great... LOVE makes a way.

 

[Reykhel]

Bottom line her actions.

All you really want to know is "how does she treat me?"

Excited to see you? Touchy and affectionate? Always sexually responsive? Cooks for you? Laughs at your jokes? Listens and throws the ball back attentively during conversations? Plans things to do? Mentions you a lot in her conversations?

All you need to be concerned about is how she treats you.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Bottom line her actions.

All you really want to know is "how does she treat me?"

Excited to see you? Touchy and affectionate? Always sexually responsive? Cooks for you? Laughs at your jokes? Listens and throws the ball back attentively during conversations? Plans things to do? Mentions you a lot in her conversations?

All you need to be concerned about is how she treats you.

Can a babe be "acting cool" and not showing too much excitement or affection to you, and underneath that viel really like you?

 

[Roober]

It is all in the actions! Don't look at what she says to you. Look at whether or not she makes time for you. You just have to feel it. If your gut says something is wrong, it may be time to back off a bit.

People will tell you who they are, you just have to listen!

 

[Reykhel]

@mrgoodstuff

Sure, at the beggining stages yes. But as it progresses you'd expect her to thaw out and start putting effort into trying to stay a part of your life. An interested good/intelligent woman will want to please her man and not risk losing him. Of course that is based on you being a man worthy of being treated well too (hint: your own self esteem and self respect)

Interest level is all degrees anyway. To what degree is she treating you well usually is a good indicator to where her interest level is.

The op talks about commitmemt, so I assume he's not at the beggining stages...

If she stays cold and aloof, that's not how a King expects his woman to behave.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

@mrgoodstuff

Sure, at the begging stages yes. But as it progresses you'd expect her to thaw out and start putting effort into trying to stay a part of your life. An interested good/intelligent woman will want to please her man and not risk losing him. Of course that is based on you being a man worthy of being treated well too (hint: your own self esteem and self respect)

Interest level is all degrees anyway. To what degree is she treating you well usually is a good indicator to where her interest level is.

The op talks about commitmemt, so I assume he's not at the beggining stages...

If she stays cold and aloof, that's not how a King expects his woman to behave.

So if you trained her by being responsive and giving a bunch of positive attention while she "acts cool", and you realize it's not emotionally balanced. All we can do is pull away, cut contact, blow them off a few times, dig into our passions more and hope they start to pursue us?

If they don't pursue you have to drop it...