How do you get her into bed after you bring her home?

[Gimple]

The subject line says it all ... after you've brought a chick over to your place, how do you get her into bed? What are the steps from the entrance to the bedroom?

 

[marmel75]

That should be the easy part...she KNOWS why she is there..you KNOW why she is there...

Offer her a drink, put on a movie and then seduce her. How hard is it? She gave you the green light to do it.

 

[TheGambino]

You offer her a drink. You offer her to sit on the couch and go sit right next to her. You put on a movie or the radio/music. You make romantic/sexual talk by asking her personal questions about what she likes in a man, or what she expects in a good relationship. When it comes to the convo of sex or you just ask her straight, she is likeley going to talk. You grab her hand, look her in the eyes then make out. While you are making out you smell her neck, touch her legs, touch her belly, whisper stuff in her ear. Then you grab her hand, stand up and lead her to your bedroom. You make out again, undress her and voila, the rest is history.

This is the easy part of everything. Think with your d1ck when shes in your house, not over/think. Just go for what you want, straight up.

 

[bigneil]

The subject line says it all ... after you've brought a chick over to your place, how do you get her into bed? What are the steps from the entrance to the bedroom?

After the proper romance of about 5 weeks, if you get her alone, you should offer her a drink. Sit down together, have a sip. Take her drink and put it on the table. Reach under and lift her up, onto your lap. Tip her back and kiss her. Slowly work your way to a small French kiss (not the band Kiss, no Gene Simmons tongue). Let your hand go from her belly slowly up to her nipples.

Once I got to this point with the following 4 women (who I had never been alone with before) recently, here were the lines I used:

1) To the 20 year old I said: "I have some bad news. I think... I think we're going to have sex tonight. Listen, I don't like it any more than you do. But I think we should just get it over with". She said ok. Time to score: 6 minutes.
2) The 19 year old actually said "just f*ck me" before I said a word. I said ok. Time to score: 5 minutes.
3) The 22 year old was paranoid and wouldn't go further. I took her home. Time to score (didn't score - but still dating her).
4) With the 26 year old who I'd known 11 months, I didn't say a word. Time to score: 15 minutes.

Here is a good trick. If you have chemistry with a different girl, you can recreate that feeling by thinking about them.

 

[Poon King]

Once you get her home, 90% of your job is done.

I usually just tell her to have a seat and relax on the couch while I prepare drinks. I don't "ask her" if she wants a drink, I just make her one. There is no downside to this. The more you take the lead the more sexy and experienced she will find you to be.

Next, I throw on some good music and sit next to her on the couch. I make sure the temperature is around 75 degrees. Comfortable enough to be naked. I light some scented candles (vanilla). I ask her how her drink is. I briefly discuss the music playing.

Remember that most women LOVE, LOVE, LOVE foreplay. Getting right into it doesn't turn most women on. So its best to have a steady, but strong progression. I flirt with her, tease her and touch her until we both finish our drinks. Then I go in for the kiss. Then I keep going.

That's really it.

 

[Billtx49]

After her warm up in a living area doing whatever, take her on a guided tour of your place ending with the bedroom and continue seduction there. She will get the idea.
If it's a 1 bedroom, keep that door closed until the tour…

 

[marmel75]

After the proper romance of about 5 weeks, if you get her alone, you should offer her a drink. Sit down together, have a sip. Take her drink and put it on the table. Reach under and lift her up, onto your lap. Tip her back and kiss her. Slowly work your way to a small French kiss (not the band Kiss, no Gene Simmons tongue). Let your hand go from her belly slowly up to her nipples.

Once I got to this point with the following 4 women (who I had never been alone with before) recently, here were the lines I used:

1) To the 20 year old I said: "I have some bad news. I think... I think we're going to have sex tonight. Listen, I don't like it any more than you do. But I think we should just get it over with". She said ok. Time to score: 6 minutes.
2) The 19 year old actually said "just f*ck me" before I said a word. I said ok. Time to score: 5 minutes.
3) The 22 year old was paranoid and wouldn't go further. I took her home. Time to score (didn't score - but still dating her).
4) With the 26 year old who I'd known 11 months, I didn't say a word. Time to score: 15 minutes.

Here is a good trick. If you have chemistry with a different girl, you can recreate that feeling by thinking about them.

Lmao! Proper romance of 5 weeks? You sure you aren't trying to be her gay friend?

 

[BeExcellent]

Nothing worse than feeling chilly when naked. It is downright distracting.

Foreplay is best to properly warm up a woman (who already wants you/is seriously considering sex with you or she wouldn't be there).

If you have pets, put them out. You don't want your dog jumping on her or putting a cold nose where it doesn't belong. Fido can wait.

A gentleman should have a basic bar set up. Something where you can make a drink or pour a glass of wine. Buy splits to share and keep a white, a red and a bubbly on hand.

Proper basic home bar game is its own thread not to run this one off the rails.

If you play guitar or piano play her something. Women find this very sexy.

 

[bigneil]

Lmao! Proper romance of 5 weeks? You sure you aren't trying to be her gay friend?

I'm saying 5 weeks from the day you first lay eyes on her until you have her alone in your apartment or hotel room. You can have a one night stand, but you can't get a girl to have a crush and high interest instantly. But enlighten us - tell us about the 4 girls you had in hotels in the past 5 weeks.

The 4 girls I was with I knew:

1) 5 weeks (my benchmark)
2) 6 months (then random one night stand)
3) 5 days (too soon)
4) 11 months (too long)

That's probably more than marmel75 has had since 2010, so bear with him.

 

[marmel75]

I'm saying 5 weeks from the day you first lay eyes on her until you have her alone in your apartment or hotel room. You can have a one night stand, but you can't get a girl to have a crush and high interest instantly. But enlighten us - tell us about the 4 girls you had in hotels in the past 5 weeks.

The 4 girls I was with I knew:

1) 5 weeks (my benchmark)
2) 6 months (then random one night stand)
3) 5 days (too soon)
4) 11 months (too long)

That's probably more than marmel75 has had since 2010, so bear with him.

BigNeil, the class clown as always...

 

[skinnyguy]

Drinks
Good food (this always works)
Good music
Candles
A good movie

 

[backseatjuan]

The subject line says it all ... after you've brought a chick over to your place, how do you get her into bed? What are the steps from the entrance to the bedroom?

Steps! No man, there are no steps, you have to feel situation. Plus, for sex you don't have to bring her home. Also, sometimes you bring them home not for sex.

Make some drinks, turn on tv, show her around, don't go grabbing her like a maniac. She is your friend, just came in to visit you. Show her your bedroom, and fvck her.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Its case by case.. generally touch her, kiss her, fondle her, f-ck her. Whatever the vibe is, go with it. No point playing a love song to her if she has dropped her wet panties in your lap and is dragging you to the bedroom.

I am not very subtle though. She has come over. I make small talk, and lots of eye contact. Then I stand up and tell her to come here. When she does I kiss her and make out a little then tell her to come to bed so I can f-ck her.

I stand up to kiss her because making out seated is a pain, all twisted necks and awkward positions. If I am standing I can wrap her in my arms and grind a little and reach her ass i also have the option of just picking her up and carrying her to the bedroom or picking her up, wrapping her legs around me and dry humping her against a wall. If she is not into it by then she will never be.

Confident touching and eye contsct before she gets to your place will make getting the lay a lot easier.

It's all about the vibe.

 

[bigneil]

BigNeil, the class clown as always...

Here's an idea - when you want to say something: have a point. It makes it so much easier for the reader.

There is nothing the DJ-wannabee's here hate more than seeing my raw, undeniably awesome statistics.

 

[backseatjuan]

After the proper romance of about 5 weeks, if you get her alone, you should offer her a drink. Sit down together, have a sip. Take her drink and put it on the table. Reach under and lift her up, onto your lap. Tip her back and kiss her. Slowly work your way to a small French kiss (not the band Kiss, no Gene Simmons tongue). Let your hand go from her belly slowly up to her nipples.

Once I got to this point with the following 4 women (who I had never been alone with before) recently, here were the lines I used:

1) To the 20 year old I said: "I have some bad news. I think... I think we're going to have sex tonight. Listen, I don't like it any more than you do. But I think we should just get it over with". She said ok. Time to score: 6 minutes.
2) The 19 year old actually said "just f*ck me" before I said a word. I said ok. Time to score: 5 minutes.
3) The 22 year old was paranoid and wouldn't go further. I took her home. Time to score (didn't score - but still dating her).
4) With the 26 year old who I'd known 11 months, I didn't say a word. Time to score: 15 minutes.

Here is a good trick. If you have chemistry with a different girl, you can recreate that feeling by thinking about them.

DON"T LISTEN TO THIS SH!T!!!!

After 5 weeks of proper romance, go home and jerk off to a nice porno!

 

[bigneil]

Don't listen to 4 actual case examples (3 of which led to sex) by myself in the last 5 weeks with HB8+ women, ages 19-26?

Because I used "about 5 weeks" as a rough estimate for how long it takes you to meet a new girl who you never saw, and have her ready to go in your apartment?

You're saying you bring them back that night? That is not romance. That is a one night stand.

A romance only happens after a woman has a crush. A crush only happens after she has seen you at least twice, and chased you at least once.

I love how you monday morning seducers never provide one shred of evidence, you just spew hot air about the fat women you take home for a $5 Bud Light.

No wonder why BackSeatJuan has such a remarkably low Like count rate of 5% versus my 15%.

 

[skinnyguy]

I've brought back 2 Latinas to my place in the past 5 days. Both of them said I had a comfy bed and a nice place. You should make sure your place is clean and that you always have alcohol. Both of those girls drink a lot so I knew I had to be prepared lol.

The interesting thing - they will jump into bed with clothes on, and when you start to take them off they will say "what are you doing?" without resisting. lol its funny stuff

 

[wifehunter]

Buy a new mattress and have her test it out?

 

[marmel75]

Here's an idea - when you want to say something: have a point. It makes it so much easier for the reader.

There is nothing the DJ-wannabee's here hate more than seeing my raw, undeniably awesome statistics.

Yes...a living legend in your own mind.

 

[devilkingx2]

with tape and rope usually