"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How do I increase my social status?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If you think that your project could expand and benefit other areas (most can), you can even upload videos about events and progress on youtube, etc., which should garner more popularity and allow you to make calls for action.
Tramp fights.org?
Like I could pay homeless people to fight each other, film it then have them arrested and post it on you tube for a fee per watch?
LOL
I'll give you an idea ...
I knew of a guy who started a meetup group for young adults 21-33 who were new to the city or didn't know it well to do activities like picnics, local concerts, etc. together. Most of the stuff he chose was either free or not expensive. Within 4 months, that guy was drowning in contacts, a good portion were cute women.
Thats a cool idea thanks bro!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
