I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Tramp fights.org?There is no fast way, but a relatively easy thing to do is to fill a need or contribute to the community in some visible way. For instance, spearheading a recreation or clean up project, volunteering at a charity or similar cause - somebody here mentioned an animal welfare center, preparing food for the homeless, etc. Just make sure that whatever you do, it is something that puts you in regular contact with the types of people with whom you want to have a standing.
If you think that your project could expand and benefit other areas (most can), you can even upload videos about events and progress on youtube, etc., which should garner more popularity and allow you to make calls for action.
LOLTramp fights.org?
Like I could pay homeless people to fight each other, film it then have them arrested and post it on you tube for a fee per watch?
Thats a cool idea thanks bro!LOL
I'll give you an idea ...
I knew of a guy who started a meetup group for young adults 21-33 who were new to the city or didn't know it well to do activities like picnics, local concerts, etc. together. Most of the stuff he chose was either free or not expensive. Within 4 months, that guy was drowning in contacts, a good portion were cute women.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.