PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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See looks don't matter
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I usually hate the term as I know some white guys who honestly grew up in the area and as a result behave more -- urban. But the guy in this video is cringy and obviously trying to hard. Disingenuous.That white guy in the video is fckn annoying me with his wiggering.
I grew up around black culture, but my family are middle class, suburban white folk. So I behave accordingly. The (genuinely) black guy in the video seems quite embarrassed by this behaviour; I'd say almost p!ssed off at the mimicry. Like a charicature.I usually hate the term as I know some white guys who honestly grew up in the area and as a result behave more -- urban. But the guy in this video is cringy and obviously trying to hard. Disingenuous.
Agreed. Why all the fuss over a mutt like that.Tiny has GOT to be the ugliest woman ever
Obviously if he was trying to get with the finest babe he wouldn't have chose her. She helped him out early in his career and stuck by him through a lot of stuff, then after 8 or whatever kids you know you will be bonded.I never understood what T.I. seen in that thing. Tiny has GOT to be the ugliest woman ever![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.