PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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See looks don't matter
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I usually hate the term as I know some white guys who honestly grew up in the area and as a result behave more -- urban. But the guy in this video is cringy and obviously trying to hard. Disingenuous.That white guy in the video is fckn annoying me with his wiggering.
I grew up around black culture, but my family are middle class, suburban white folk. So I behave accordingly. The (genuinely) black guy in the video seems quite embarrassed by this behaviour; I'd say almost p!ssed off at the mimicry. Like a charicature.I usually hate the term as I know some white guys who honestly grew up in the area and as a result behave more -- urban. But the guy in this video is cringy and obviously trying to hard. Disingenuous.
Agreed. Why all the fuss over a mutt like that.Tiny has GOT to be the ugliest woman ever
Obviously if he was trying to get with the finest babe he wouldn't have chose her. She helped him out early in his career and stuck by him through a lot of stuff, then after 8 or whatever kids you know you will be bonded.I never understood what T.I. seen in that thing. Tiny has GOT to be the ugliest woman ever![]()
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.