ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
True dat.Myself. If not, what am I waiting for?
What was his biggest lesson to you? And what made him so tough in your eyes?Sounds soppy, but I really respect my father.
A serious alpha male, that got married and had kids. Worked his bollocks off to provide for us, then got divorced because my mother decided he was "too possessive".
Seriously sorts me out sometimes when I am being daft. A legit alpha.
A proper "hard-man" too. Got sent to borstal for demolishing someone at a party with a frying pan
I learn from his mistakes, as well as his wisdom.
Elaborate pls,Carl Froch (champion boxer) used to see him around a lot in Nottingham before he became famous
That's a funny story. What happened to the guys now?My martial arts trainer ran a gym with one of his buddies in the late 80's to early 90's. They had an open challenge that every Saturday morning, they would open the gym and fight anyone who showed up. This was pre-UFC, and before there were even toughman competitions, also before the state began regulating fights like they do now. The word spread about the two crazy guys who would fight anybody, and every Saturday morning a new car load of challengers would roll up. I asked him if they ever lost, and he said, "No. Not at our gym." But one group of guys told them about a guy in Kansas City who could beat their asses, so they jumped in a car and drove eight hours to KC. They knocked on the guy's door, and a little Japanese man opened it. He looked like Mr Miagi from The Karate Kid.
I asked him what happened next. "Oh that old man beat the sh!t out of us! He was grabbing fingers and bending them backwards; he knew every dirty trick there was, and neither of us wanted to punch him because he was old." They were just glad to meet someone who could teach them something.
Why was he kicked out?Probably a man that fought less with his hands but more with his mind. A pastor that built a billion dollar non-profit from nothing. He taught me that if you get knocked down get back up and press on. He was a hard ass, but if you worked hard and proved yourself he would reward you. I worked closely with him everyday and he was very generous with me.
Eventually he was booted out by the board of directors. They also booted out his most loyal employees. I was kicked to the curb with him and many others. Oh well get back up and move on.
It was a power struggle. His daughter aligned herself with some of the higher echelon employees and some board members. Funny thing is after they got rid of him she thought she would lead the organization. They kicked her ass to the curb too. She was to stupid to realize that she was being used. Now the organization has shrunk to about 25% of what it once was.Why was he kicked out?
That's sad. Corruption destroys everything. They were probably stealing the money and knew that the pastor would get in the way of things had he found out.It was a power struggle. His daughter aligned herself with some of the higher echelon employees and some board members. Funny thing is after they got rid of him she thought she would lead the organization. They kicked her ass to the curb too. She was to stupid to realize that she was being used. Now the organization has shrunk to about 25% of what it once was.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.