Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You got me there. I felt that leaving little snippets of sarcasm give her a peak into my personality. So when she asks me why I don't have a GF and I respond that it doesn't work well with my side gigolo business, she doesn't get all weird.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
How long does it take you to ask the girl out? The same day she replies to your initial message?
Ideally the within the first 4 messages.
Yes, the mission is to meet again soon. The number then just comes as an afterthought to further facilitate the meeting already organized.
WTF are you talking about? If you end up meeting her, you get the number then. Most cases she will give it to you.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Well, the point I was making is that a lot of the novices are just thinking about securing the number -- the number for the number's sake. Like a puppy dog with its tail wagging, they come back all excited about getting the number. Surprise, surprise it goes nowhere. Instead of building attraction [and perhaps an instant date], they were distracted by 'getting the number.'