"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yo! I just came out of a 2.5+ year of relationship. Tell me the biggest changes of the dating world

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I would like to know how the dynamic of the world has change in the past 2-3 years. I havent been in the market and just been focusing on my career and the relationship.

Now I can bang some hotties while working on my career so what has been the biggest changes?

When I say dynamic of the world, I mean the dating world. If theres something interesting about the world as a whole, you can share them too.

For example do people even go out to bars anymore? How common has ons become? What is the role of tinder and online dating? Are day game and cold approaches still in? I mean do girls even hang out outside anymore... And so on..

What stuff are you spamming that results positively?

I have to add: it's my lifestyle to pick up girls. I do it everywhere as long as it doesn't hinder my life and career in a bad way so give me some ideas where chicks spent time nowadays.

I'm not looking for basic knowledge of don juan, just how the dynamic of the world has changed. Heck, I'm pretty confident ive mastered the advanced don juan skills and mindset. Has women become more egoistic? Has feminist grown to what extent?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In the first place how does it matter if one is 18 or 81? Secondly, I was 18 when I joined this site which is 3 years ago if that somehow makes you feel better.

Now start giving some proper answers or gtfo, hihi.
Because at your age you don't even know what you don't know.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Have you been hiding in a hole for two years or how does your question arise as a self-proclaimed pick-up lifestyler?
Like I said I have been in a relationship for 2-3 years so I havent been out living the single life.

What I am trying to get out of this thread is TOOLS. When you are in a mesningful relationship, you don't need those tools that you need when you are single. I am just trying to figure out what tools work in 2016.
 

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Cold approaching, social game and tinder work just fine ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I remember you, haven't seen you active here in a long time...

Pretty much nothing has changed in my opinion. How you got your girlfriend in the first place would still be effective today.
 

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Like I said I have been in a relationship for 2-3 years so I havent been out living the single life.

What I am trying to get out of this thread is TOOLS. When you are in a mesningful relationship, you don't need those tools that you need when you are single. I am just trying to figure out what tools work in 2016.
The same ones that have worked since the beginning of time.
 

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Like I said I have been in a relationship for 2-3 years so I havent been out living the single life.

What I am trying to get out of this thread is TOOLS. When you are in a mesningful relationship, you don't need those tools that you need when you are single. I am just trying to figure out what tools work in 2016.
With modern day relation life the single life is like the apple in the garden of eden. You still need some single tools, the ones dealing with attraction, and some dealing with some working their emotions. You have to keep them interested and sink the hook in deeper sometimes, because people get complacent.
 

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With modern day relation life the single life is like the apple in the garden of eden. You still need some single tools, the ones dealing with attraction, and some dealing with some working their emotions. You have to keep them interested and sink the hook in deeper sometimes, because people get complacent.
Yes nice.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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