marmel75
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If that's her in the picture nobody on this forum would even bother talking with her, so it doesn't really matter, lol
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Walked out on a date last night...
- Thread starter Floydispink01
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
womensview
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You are utterly ridiculous in this, NO I didn't create an acct for the C word. That is nuts as well. I just think using the C words shows your intelligence.
womensview
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You are utterly ridiculous I have plenty of men talking to me and I don't always engage them and I don't need anyone to judge me on my looks. I really don't care one way or the other. Just makes no difference, once again immaturity and deciding things on people's looks vs character. Grow up
Bokanovsky
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Sounds like grandma ran out of meds...
one rule I always follow and proved right, any woman who calls you ridiculous, means you hit her nerve, she knows you are right, but don't want to give you that. so juan juan is on something here.
btw if I fell like calling a girl a Cvnt, I will do so, I don't flying care what you think
to op, I would have droped her sooner, sometimes even the sex is not worth.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
logicallefty
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Then go talk to them. The word cvnt is used here and there on this site. some of our female members can handle it but it doesn't seem to me like you are one who can. Facebook might be a better place for you.
Bible_Belt
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This is why we don't have female members on this site. As soon as one starts posting, we get into a competition over who can be the biggest d!ck.
Masculinity
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I think you handled it well. I don't anything to add other than saying good job. Self respect is key in this game.
Floydispink01
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Cheers for the response's guys.
Yes, looking back i did the right thing - i find it completely unattractive when a girl is intoxicated enough to not even hold a conversation.
I could of gone for the lay but she wasn't worth it. Plus i went back home and finished my drawing. Happy days. Blocked her also.
BTW - the term 'cvnt' used in the UK is the most offensive word so her reaction confirmed what i thought about her. I'm guessing my action's offended her more than any words could say though.
Took another girl out yesterday.......She was much more pleasant.
Yes, looking back i did the right thing - i find it completely unattractive when a girl is intoxicated enough to not even hold a conversation.
I could of gone for the lay but she wasn't worth it. Plus i went back home and finished my drawing. Happy days. Blocked her also.
BTW - the term 'cvnt' used in the UK is the most offensive word so her reaction confirmed what i thought about her. I'm guessing my action's offended her more than any words could say though.
Took another girl out yesterday.......She was much more pleasant.
womensview
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Well, lets see, shall I refer to use as a man cVnt. Because that is what is being displayed.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
womensview
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I would say the kid ran out of his bipolar meds.
grayclif
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Please just leave.
More attempts at shaming. Let's see what we have this time:
Charge of Puerility (Code Green) - The Peter Pan Charge
The target is accused of being immature and/or irresponsible in some manner that reflects badly on his status as an adult male.
Either learn to behave yourself and adapt to what is predominately (used to be exclusively) a MAN'S site or go find a site that is more in tune with the way you think the world should be...
I can suggest http://www.loveshack.org
Now, try not to be such malignant cvnt troll.
womensview
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Insecure are we and try not to be a male cvnt which us are displaying.
womensview
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U are displaying correction, typo.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
womensview
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Sending love your way.
womensview
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Sorry don't take orders.
womensview
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I don't give a flying blank what u think either, so guess we are on the same pg. All I want to do is ROTFLMAO
womensview
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Guess I must have hit a nerve, have a nice day.
devilkingx2
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but did you score
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.