"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Have you genuinely taken the time and read what is generally discussed in this forum? So you created an account just boast your dismay of the C word, this is sad.
If that's her in the picture nobody on this forum would even bother talking with her, so it doesn't really matter, lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have you genuinely taken the time and read what is generally discussed in this forum? So you created an account just boast your dismay of the C word, this is sad.
You are utterly ridiculous in this, NO I didn't create an acct for the C word. That is nuts as well. I just think using the C words shows your intelligence.
 

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If that's her in the picture nobody on this forum would even bother talking with her, so it doesn't really matter, lol
You are utterly ridiculous I have plenty of men talking to me and I don't always engage them and I don't need anyone to judge me on my looks. I really don't care one way or the other. Just makes no difference, once again immaturity and deciding things on people's looks vs character. Grow up
 

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You are utterly ridiculous I have plenty of men talking to me and I don't always engage them and I don't need anyone to judge me on my looks. I really don't care one way or the other. Just makes no difference, once again immaturity and deciding things on people's looks vs character. Grow up
Sounds like grandma ran out of meds...
 

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Sounds like grandma ran out of meds...
one rule I always follow and proved right, any woman who calls you ridiculous, means you hit her nerve, she knows you are right, but don't want to give you that. so juan juan is on something here.


btw if I fell like calling a girl a Cvnt, I will do so, I don't flying care what you think

to op, I would have droped her sooner, sometimes even the sex is not worth.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You are utterly ridiculous I have plenty of men talking to me
Then go talk to them. The word cvnt is used here and there on this site. some of our female members can handle it but it doesn't seem to me like you are one who can. Facebook might be a better place for you.
 

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I think you handled it well. I don't anything to add other than saying good job. Self respect is key in this game.
 

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Cheers for the response's guys.

Yes, looking back i did the right thing - i find it completely unattractive when a girl is intoxicated enough to not even hold a conversation.

I could of gone for the lay but she wasn't worth it. Plus i went back home and finished my drawing. Happy days. Blocked her also.

BTW - the term 'cvnt' used in the UK is the most offensive word so her reaction confirmed what i thought about her. I'm guessing my action's offended her more than any words could say though.

Took another girl out yesterday.......She was much more pleasant.
 

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Then go talk to them. The word cvnt is used here and there on this site. some of our female members can handle it but it doesn't seem to me like you are one who can. Facebook might be a better place for you.
Well, lets see, shall I refer to use as a man cVnt. Because that is what is being displayed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You are utterly ridiculous I have plenty of men talking to me and I don't always engage them and I don't need anyone to judge me on my looks. I really don't care one way or the other. Just makes no difference, once again immaturity and deciding things on people's looks vs character. Grow up
More attempts at shaming. Let's see what we have this time:
Charge of Puerility (Code Green) - The Peter Pan Charge

The target is accused of being immature and/or irresponsible in some manner that reflects badly on his status as an adult male.

Either learn to behave yourself and adapt to what is predominately (used to be exclusively) a MAN'S site or go find a site that is more in tune with the way you think the world should be...
I can suggest http://www.loveshack.org

Now, try not to be such malignant cvnt troll.
 

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Insecure are we and try not to be a male cvnt which us are displaying.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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More attempts at shaming. Let's see what we have this time:
Charge of Puerility (Code Green) - The Peter Pan Charge

The target is accused of being immature and/or irresponsible in some manner that reflects badly on his status as an adult male.

Either learn to behave yourself and adapt to what is predominately (used to be exclusively) a MAN'S site or go find a site that is more in tune with the way you think the world should be...
I can suggest http://www.loveshack.org

Now, try not to be such malignant cvnt troll.
Sorry don't take orders.
 

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one rule I always follow and proved right, any woman who calls you ridiculous, means you hit her nerve, she knows you are right, but don't want to give you that. so juan juan is on something here.


btw if I fell like calling a girl a Cvnt, I will do so, I don't flying care what you think

to op, I would have droped her sooner, sometimes even the sex is not worth.
I don't give a flying blank what u think either, so guess we are on the same pg. All I want to do is ROTFLMAO
 

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Cheers for the response's guys.

Yes, looking back i did the right thing - i find it completely unattractive when a girl is intoxicated enough to not even hold a conversation.

I could of gone for the lay but she wasn't worth it. Plus i went back home and finished my drawing. Happy days. Blocked her also.

BTW - the term 'cvnt' used in the UK is the most offensive word so her reaction confirmed what i thought about her. I'm guessing my action's offended her more than any words could say though.

Took another girl out yesterday.......She was much more pleasant.
but did you score
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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