Hey guys
I have been casually dating this girl for a few months. Amongst my other plates, i find that the chemistry is best with this one.
We have discussed past relationships before but not in detail till a few nights ago.
A few things about her that really triggered my red flag radar
1. Past relationships were with colleagues
2. 'Emotionally' cheated on an ex with another
3. Had an affair with a married man for 6 months.
4. Friends with a few of her exes
I felt that the ones that really hit hard was 2, 3. Had to read up on what emotional cheating and it still does involve doing stuff behind your partner's back.
I had to keep a level head when she was telling me about the affair. She said that the guy made her a better person after her break up and was caring, blah blah. Was close to saying something out of anger but held back. This incident also brought her back to church as she had to forgive herself.
I understand that I'm feeling this way as i have some level of attraction for her. But I also do know that I have to be level headed about this before it progresses any further.
My take is I have to end it here, emotionally at least as I do find it hard to be in a serious relationship with someone who has put herself in such situations before and whose moral compass is somewhat lacking.
Would like to hear from you guys if I'm making the right call here?
I have been casually dating this girl for a few months. Amongst my other plates, i find that the chemistry is best with this one.
We have discussed past relationships before but not in detail till a few nights ago.
A few things about her that really triggered my red flag radar
1. Past relationships were with colleagues
2. 'Emotionally' cheated on an ex with another
3. Had an affair with a married man for 6 months.
4. Friends with a few of her exes
I felt that the ones that really hit hard was 2, 3. Had to read up on what emotional cheating and it still does involve doing stuff behind your partner's back.
I had to keep a level head when she was telling me about the affair. She said that the guy made her a better person after her break up and was caring, blah blah. Was close to saying something out of anger but held back. This incident also brought her back to church as she had to forgive herself.
I understand that I'm feeling this way as i have some level of attraction for her. But I also do know that I have to be level headed about this before it progresses any further.
My take is I have to end it here, emotionally at least as I do find it hard to be in a serious relationship with someone who has put herself in such situations before and whose moral compass is somewhat lacking.
Would like to hear from you guys if I'm making the right call here?
