Red Flags - Head games from new target

[Tedhe]

Hey Boys,

Looking for guidance - recently meet a girl online. We hit it off really well and hung out for a ton of time in a short window - told her she was cool and said let's keep in touch - she agreed.

Over the next 2 weeks she won't stop messaging me non stop, liking all my social media stuff, just a lot of attention seeking behavior - she is aware that I am dating other women....probably what drove the behavior.

Recently she chilled out - so I said we should goto a concert - she's went back and forth on this as I tried to adjust my plans to accommodate (my fault) - at the end of the uncertainty I just said I found someone else to go with and left it at that.

I didn't show any anger towards her indecision/head games but I want to toss her to the side. What's the best way to do it - I'm concerned she maybe a crazy and wanna do it in a way that just makes her bored of me (Google: grey rocking?)

Thanks,
T

 

[CuddleJunkie]

What is stopping you for just making it clear that you don't want to see her? Is she that much of a crazy one? If yes, some guys here recommend to go full blue pill mode on her, basically make her pvssy dry by overbetaing. Pretty machiavellic if you ask me. I miss Reykehl ;-;

 

[Tedhe]

What is stopping you for just making it clear that you don't want to see her? Is she that much of a crazy one? If yes, some guys here recommend to go full blue pill mode on her, basically make her pvssy dry by overbetaing. Pretty machiavellic if you ask me. I miss Reykehl ;-;

Her attention seeking behavior crossed with her indecision is what puts me at an unnerving spot....

Iv seen this term red pill vs blue pill - what is that exactly?

Thanks!

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Iv seen this term red pill vs blue pill - what is that exactly?

Wow man. Are you into game and the manosphere and never been exposed to TheRedPill? I don't think that's possible lol. Well, now that I think about it, there are people that don't know about Pook...

So basically, being redpill is having knowledge about women's hypergamic nature and how it pervades intergender dynamics...being bluepill is buying into the Femenine Imperative (TheRationalMale , read this site bro, it will teach you everything necessary about redpill theory).

So basically, buy her flowers, text her constantly, even write a poem lol. That should make her lost interest fairly quickly.

 

[cola]

Just stop responding to her

 

[El Payaso]

What cola said.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Why were you even responding to a woman you don't want to sleep with?

 

[ohrein]

Tell her you love her.

 

[marmel75]

Hey Boys,

Looking for guidance - recently meet a girl online. We hit it off really well and hung out for a ton of time in a short window - told her she was cool and said let's keep in touch - she agreed.

Over the next 2 weeks she won't stop messaging me non stop, liking all my social media stuff, just a lot of attention seeking behavior - she is aware that I am dating other women....probably what drove the behavior.

Recently she chilled out - so I said we should goto a concert - she's went back and forth on this as I tried to adjust my plans to accommodate (my fault) - at the end of the uncertainty I just said I found someone else to go with and left it at that.

I didn't show any anger towards her indecision/head games but I want to toss her to the side. What's the best way to do it - I'm concerned she maybe a crazy and wanna do it in a way that just makes her bored of me (Google: grey rocking?)

Thanks,
T

My Thoughts:

1) Never give a woman you just met access to any social media accounts. Nothing good will ever come of this, only bad.

2) You were too easy and spent too much time with her in the beginning. She senses you put too much importance on her and that you have few other options.

3) Did you have sex with her? If not there is your answer. Lack of escalation. If you are spending "all this time" with her and a good portion of it isn't spent fvcking, she views you as nothing more than a new gay friend.