Dhoulmagus
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Like I'm looking at girls hs vs now and they have gained so much weight since. How do they let this happen to them?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't understand how anyone in general can be fat and not look in the mirror and be like, "Ok...I f*cked up" then make it their highest priority to get healthy.The same way most men do.
My ex is ballooning and keeps complaiining about it. I have told her to learn how to cook a freakin meal, but she refuses to because that's the man's job. In addition, most females I know don't know how to cook either lol. Most men I know had to learn how to cook because they started weight lifting like I did.One factor is because so many modern women simply have no culinary skills
and survive on very unhealthy diets consisting of fast foods and microwavable dinners.
The British chef Gordon Ramsay's tried to address this on his program the F-word, with his
focus on "Get women back in the kitchen"
Copy and paste from wikipedia..
Women in the kitchen[edit]
A major component of series 1 was Ramsay's "Get Women Back in the Kitchen" campaign. In a self-administered survey, he found that three-quarters of women could not cook, with some 78% never cooking a regular evening dinner. Women found cooking to be a chore, whereas men found it to be an enjoyable activity. Ramsay claimed that women "know how to mix ****tails but can't cook to save their lives."[19]
Ramsay's findings were met with mixed reactions. While some of his contemporaries, like Nigella Lawson, previously stated similar opinions, other celebrity chefs, like Clarissa ****son Wright, felt Ramsay's proposition was "rubbish and about ten years out of date".[20] Wright felt that these comments undermined the increased enrollment of women at culinary schools across the United Kingdom. His intentions have been misunderstood by some who believe that he thinks women belong in the kitchen or should be doing the cooking for their husbands, whereas his real desire is to help women who want to be able to cook but lack the confidence or motivation
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I can't tell if that's a joke or what.I have told her to learn how to cook a freakin meal, but she refuses to because that's the man's job.
I guess it is nowI can't tell if that's a joke or what.
In which western societies are men traditionally expected to do the cooking!?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The most fundamental rule is the "NC" rule, and that rule includes not thinking and talking about exes.My ex is ballooning and keeps complaiining about it. I have told her to learn how to cook a freakin meal, but she refuses to because that's the man's job. In addition, most females I know don't know how to cook either lol. Most men I know had to learn how to cook because they started weight lifting like I did.
Haven't you ever come across fast a$$ men? Who do you think most of them settle for?There is this tatted up land whale at work that is probably 35. She has a kid and a fiance. Why on earth would anyone want her fat a ss?
We are here to have a good, healthy, and objective discussions and not encourage "sexism" and hatred towards women. When women are wrong, let's call them out on their B.S. When women are right, let's given them the credit. Fair enough?I appologize... but for me, a woman stops being a woman once she loses her figure. I'm just not attracted to gorillas!!! LOL!!! I mean, how am I supposed to get hard enough to do the deed? God has blessed them with something great, and they destroy it. Stupid fools!!!
True, but whenever I see couples they generally fall into the following three categories,Guys do the same thing and gain 25-80 lbs when they get into an LTR or Marriage. We have to maintain our end of the bargain as much as them.
Because women don't give two **** about muscles.True, but whenever I see couples they generally fall into the following three categories,
1) Both guy and girl are fit
2) Guy is fit, girl is a whale
3) They're both whales
I see #2 a lot, but rarely ever the other way around. Every time I see a fit dude holding hands with a whale I die a little bit on the inside. Why you gotta do this?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.